If incumbent Mike Causey wins the Republican nod for insurance commissioner in March, it’ll be his seventh nomination.

That will break the current record of six nominations for insurance commissioner — a record currently shared by Causey and the late Jim Long, a Democrat.

That’s just in the primary, though. All six times Long was nominated, beginning in 1984, he won the general election. Of Causey’s six runs — 1992, 1996, 2000, 2012, 2016, and 2020 — he was victorious in only the last two.

While all 50 states have insurance commissioners, North Carolina is one of just 11 that elect their commissioners. The office is primarily a regulatory one, not only overseeing the wide spectrum of insurance policies and annuities sold in our state but also licensing such professionals as agents, adjusters, bail bondsmen, and home inspectors.

Before his election in 2016, Causey owned an insurance agency and other businesses and worked for the N.C. Department of Transportation. On his campaign site, he argues that “more competition in North Carolina’s insurance industry will provide lower rates for consumers and greater access to better products.”

One of his rivals for the GOP nomination, former state Rep. Robert Brawley, is also an insurance professional and served off and on for two decades in the North Carolina House.

In 2004, he was the Republican nominee for insurance commissioner, losing to Long. In 2016, he unsuccessfully challenged then-Gov Pat McCrory in the GOP primary. Among Brawley’s priorities are enhancing building code safety and “maintaining fair competition in the insurance industry.”

In recent weeks, Brawley has called for a financial audit of the Department of Insurance and criticized Causey’s practice of hiring friends and political allies as personal aides and department officials. As first reported by the News & Observer of Raleigh, critics question the value and efficiency of Causey’s regional offices, though he calls them “a good way to serve the public without people having to drive all the way to Raleigh.”

A third candidate in the GOP primary, Andrew Marcus, has worked as a prosecutor, firefighter, and insurance regulator. A first-time candidate, he advocates a crackdown on insurance fraud, more price transparency and competition, and investigating any Chinese Communist Party involvement in insurers doing business in the state.

The insurance commissioner “should work for you, not for the insurance companies or for political cronies,” Marcus says. “But that’s not the case today and that’s why your rates are increasing year after year.”

One of two candidates for the Democratic nomination is Natasha Marcus (no relation to Andrew). Currently serving her third term as a state senator from Mecklenburg County, she’s a former litigator who worked at an anti-poverty organization before embarking on her political career.

“My mission has always been to stand up against corruption, corporate greed, and bad government,” Senator Marcus says. “We need a commissioner who will be on the side of the people, not corporations.” She’s been endorsed by Senate Minority Leader Dan Blue and many of her Democratic colleagues in the General Assembly, as well as the Sierra Club and the state’s AFL-CIO.

Her primary opponent is David Wheeler, is a small-business owner and former staffer for the North Carolina Secretary of State. He’s campaigning vigorously against proposed increases in homeowners insurance rates.

“No one in Raleigh is fighting to keep the rates down,” Wheeler says, “and the current commissioner is dependent upon insurance industry campaign cash.” Indeed, he calls Causey “Rate Hike Mike” and, like Brawley, has criticized Causey’s hiring practices and use of a state car to commute to Raleigh from Greensboro. Wheeler also pledges to resolve insurance claim disputes in 60 days and create programs to reduce or forgive medical debt. Among his endorsers is former state Rep. Patsy Keever.

All five of these candidates maintain campaign websites where you can read more about their backgrounds, endorsements, and positions on issues pertinent to the Department of Insurance. Early voting for North Carolina’s March primaries begins on February 15.

Editor's Note: John Hood is a John Locke Foundation board member. His latest books, Mountain Folk and Forest Folk, combine epic fantasy with early American history (FolkloreCycle.com).

The Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra intends to highlight the significant contributions of Black composers and artists through their upcoming concert titled "Celebration of Love." This special event, scheduled for Friday, Feb. 23, is a tribute to Black History Month.

“It’s important that as an arts organization, we bring greater diversity to the ranks of performers, composers, and audiences to help change the face of classical music. It’s also equally as important to make the music of black composers as accessible to all people regardless of background or ethnicity,” expressed Meghan Woolbright, Marketing and Office Manager of the FSO.

Attendees of the concert will enjoy a one-hour musical performance featuring compositions by Florence Price and Antonín Dvorák. These pieces will be brought to life by a talented string quartet comprising Megan Kenny, Dennis Malloy, Nate Leyland and Anne Leyland.

Florence Price is recognized as the inaugural African American female composer in the field of symphonic music. Additionally, she holds the distinction of having her composition performed by a prominent orchestra. Throughout her career, Price created an impressive repertoire consisting of more than 300 pieces, including four symphonies, four concertos, choral compositions, art songs, chamber music and solo instrumental works.

Antonín Dvorák became the initial composer from Bohemia to gain global acclaim. He was renowned for his ability to transform folk elements into Romantic music of the 19th century. Ever since its groundbreaking debut at Carnegie Hall in 1893, Dvorák's Symphony No. 9, also known as the "New World Symphony,” has captured the hearts of audiences across America. This orchestral masterpiece is renowned for its innovative incorporation of African American musical elements, marking a significant milestone in the history of classical music.

The Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra is excited to be partnering with the Mt. Sinai Missionary Baptist Church where the concert will take place at 6:30 p.m. Tickets are $10 for adults and $5 for children ages 6 to 18. Tickets can be purchased online at fayettevillesymphony.org, and over the phone at 910-433-4690.

Limited tickets will be available at the door the night of the performance.

“I was the hero for a little while,” Drew Ziegler says laughing.

“We learned enough to be dangerous.”

Ziegler and his wife often used to find themselves at events where people were dancing. He decided to enroll in Roland’s Dance Studio classes.

“Eventually, I got brave and purchased a beginner’s package," he said.

Now, about thirty years later, Ziegler is the president of Cape Fear Ballroom Dancers, and he and the others are preparing for their monthly dance event. This month, of course, the center is around Valentine’s Day. The event will be held at Roland’s Dance Studio from 7 p.m. to 10 p.m. on Saturday, Feb. 17. The admission for the night will be $20 and will include some light food.

“We typically do a group lesson,” he says. “It depends on if we have one of our members that is an instructor attending. It’ll be right in the middle.”

The Cape Fear Ballroom Dancers, which has about 50 members, hosts a dance every month. Eight times a year they host monthly dances at Roland’s Dance Studio on the third Saturday of every month. Each quarter, they host a dinner dance at Highland Country Club, usually accompanied by live music. All the events are open to the public and those of any dancing expertise.

“Some of the members will dance with [attendees] and show them a few steps … a lot of our members haven’t taken a formal lesson. Who cares? No one has a clipboard. People just have fun.”
For the members and Ziegler, dancing is all about showing up and having fun. Ziegler looked at dancing, now and when he began, as an elegant adult activity — something he and his wife could do for date nights. He has since found it useful in many places and all sorts of events.

“When we go to other places, when we go on a cruise … we can jump out there and dance and have a good time.”

The members of Cape Fear Ballroom Dancers encourage anyone to come out, celebrate Valentines Day and have a good time at the upcoming dance.

For those worried about having a partner to dance with, Ziegler says not to worry — there are many members spreading dances around.

“There will be no wallflowers,” he says. “No one is sitting on the sidelines. It’ll be a good workout.”
For more information on this and any upcoming dance, visit www.capefearballroomdancers.org

Some people say that I’m an old-fashioned girl, but I believe in love and all that it means. There’s nothing like making a concerted effort to have dinner and a fruitful conversation with the one you love, especially when the love is genuine and impassioned.

Fontashia Johnson had an avid vision for an event where individuals would network, build connections, create lasting memories and be in community with one another as they spread love in a good way. With this in mind, Johnson is hosting Dinner in Love on Saturday, Feb. 24 from 6 p.m. to 10 p.m.
“The purpose of this event is to bring people together in community, connection and love with gratitude,” said Johnson, owner and founder of Dinner in Love. “People will come together to enjoy a meal prepared by themselves unless they purchase an a la carte menu option while having conversations, making connections and celebrating each other.”

Johnson added that the objective is for the individual to prepare a meal alone or with someone else and they will bring that meal to the event. If they choose to purchase a meal, the meal will consist of fried chicken, macaroni and cheese, string beans, rice and cornbread.

The ticket includes entry to the event, an appetizer, a drink, dessert and wine/champagne will be provided for a heartfelt toast. The budding event is rooted in love.

“When I think about Dinner in Love, I think of having dinner with a loved one or an in-law, not just for a holiday, but we can do this every day,” said Johnson. “It is different when it comes to being in community with people that you don’t necessarily know but have an opportunity to network, grow and have authentic conversations that you may not necessarily have any other way.”

The networking affair comprises a gratitude portion, self-love activities, music, dancing, food and drinks, a variety of connection activities based around love languages, raffles, mindfulness practices and more. “One of the activities that people will partake in is similar to when you are celebrating Thanksgiving,” said Johnson. “One of the traditions in my family is that we allow each family member to say a person or a thing that we are grateful for.”

She added, “We will take a moment to show some love and gratitude for at least one thing that you are grateful for.”

The love ambassador shared that individuals will participate in a mindfulness practice activity.

“It will be a practice in the way of nonjudgmental awareness and really coming into the present moment before we partake in our meal together,” said Johnson. “There is also some element of surprise to what people will expect when they get there because this is something that we hope to continue doing.”

In 2017, the trailblazer started her nonprofit, Financial Awareness Counseling and Teaching Services. “The purpose of FACTS is to teach mindfulness, financial literacy and workplace readiness skills in underserved communities,” said Johnson. “I would go to different communities to teach individuals all of those things and now it has shifted into meeting people where they are.”

“I now go to where there are mobility issues and we want to be known as the organization that brings those teachings to you.”

Looking to keep up the momentum of Dinner in Love, the mindfulness educator has a prepense plan that aligns with her purpose of spreading love in the world in any way that seems fit.

“We hope to continue doing this event in different cities and areas to bring people together over a meal in love and connection with one another,” said Johnson. “We have to take moments of pause to really be with what’s happening in the moment, put some things aside and really love on each other.”

The event will be held at 8175 Cliffdale Road, Suite 113. General admission is $50. The dress attire is formal/business casual. For more information call 919-295-2230.

Without a doubt, Nat Robertson, President/CEO of the Fayetteville Area Chamber of Commerce, and staff celebrated their 125th Anniversary in style last week at The Carolina Barn, where over 300 attendees representing local Fayetteville businesses, educational institutions, and nonprofit organizations gathered together for the Chamber's Annual Awards dinner.

Before Robertson joined the organization, the Chamber suffered from dwindling membership, a lack of relevant programming, and poor leadership.

Wow! What a difference a year makes! Robertson is breaking records in making the Chamber relevant to the business community and growing its membership. In addition, he is initiating new programs, fine-tuning existing ones, and offering many new value-added benefits to Chamber members.

His hard work and dedication manifested when they celebrated this highly anticipated event. If there were any doubts about whether our Chamber was on the right path in rebuilding and fulfilling its vital role as an advocate for businesses and community, they exist no longer.

With 15 Chamber of Commerce Achievement Awards and dozens of well-qualified and deserving nominees, it was evident that the Chamber did the due diligence needed to select the most deserving recipients.
For ample proof, you only had to look no further than the recipient of the Realtors Cup, former President of the Fayetteville Technical Community College, Dr. Larry Keen—and Mac Healy as one of three George Breece Legacy Award honorees.

Keen retired from FTCC after 16 years at the helm. The Realtors Cup is the highest honor and most prestigious Chamber award. The Longleaf Pine Realtors organizations sponsor it. It is presented to the individual who has contributed outstandingly to the Fayetteville community's economic, civic, and cultural growth.

In addition to being a great guy, that pretty much defines Dr. Larry Keen to a tee. The fifty-plus past recipients of the Realtors Cup read like a distinguished Who's Who list of men and women who positively influenced and enhanced our quality of life.

As mentioned, the other notable indication the Chamber carefully evaluated the qualifications of their honorees was naming Mac Healy as one of the recipients of the George Breece Legacy Award.
This award honors individuals who have made exceptional contributions to the Chamber and the community. No one does that better, in my opinion, than Mac. He is probably the most generous and humble servant this community has.

Undoubtedly, Mac continually goes above and beyond when it comes to investing energy, time, resources, and commitment to the Fayetteville community. He follows in his father's footsteps.
Fritz Healy was also a great benefactor to the Fayetteville/Cumberland County community. Mac is a legacy, and he will leave a legacy. Fritz Healy would be proud. As the adage says, "The apple never falls far from the tree."

Some might say that Mac should be considered for The Realtors Cup. However, he's already been bestowed that honor in 2017. Our community needs more people like Larry Keen and Mac Healy.
To all the Chamber 2023 Annual Award winners, we say "Congratulations." My singling out Healy and Keen was only to accentuate that our Chamber of Commerce is dedicated and committed to recognizing and honoring the people, businesses, and organizations making this community enjoyable and liveable.

Make sure you read the complete list of Chamber Award winners on page 8. You will see for yourself: The Chamber Got it Right!

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Cumberland County Schools has taken another step in its journey for school safety with the recent awarding of a grant geared toward funding safety equipment, training and services for students in crisis.

The district applied for a safety grant from the North Carolina Department of Public Instruction's Center for Safer Schools and recently learned that it is one of 230 school districts and charter schools in the state to benefit from $35 million in safety grants.

According to Kevin Coleman, the associate superintendent of CCS' Auxiliary Services, the district's $103,400 award from the safety grant will be allocated to improve camera systems throughout the district by incorporating the use of artificial intelligence.

"Adding artificial intelligence capability to our already upgraded camera system will help school staff maintain a safe and orderly environment," said Coleman. "AI will allow us to take advantage of technologies that utilize facial recognition, people detection and vehicle detection. Providing school administrators with these tools will help them utilize new technologies to help protect our students and staff."

This precautionary measure follows efforts that have already been made by the district that include enhancing high-definition security cameras, implementing upgrades to the Raptor visitor management system, enhancing The Say Something anonymous tip line and establishing Behavior, Intervention, and Threat Assessment Teams.

In April 2023, CCS hosted the "School Safety: Let's Talk About It!" forum. During this event, more than 200 district and community leaders, law enforcement officers, families, educators and students shared their insights, proposing innovative safety measures to be implemented in the district.

Some of the valuable suggestions generated during the forum will now be realized through the allocation of these grant funds.

As new safety measures are implemented, the district continues to seek input and collaboration from stakeholders, emphasizing a collaborative approach to school safety.

About Cumberland County Schools

Our mission is to provide a safe, positive, and rigorous learning environment to prepare lifelong learners to reach their maximum potential. Serving nearly 50,000 students at 89 schools, we are focused on meeting students' diverse learning needs. Our fully-accredited school system has a diverse student population representing more than 75 different countries and 82 different native languages. More than 13,000 CCS students are military/federally connected.

Lift Every Voice and Sing: A Musical Journey Through Black History is a musical performance created by Brenda Vandervort-Miller. Coming into its fifth year, Lift Every Voice is an annual mainstay of the Cumberland Choral Arts musical group production lineup that aims to celebrate black culture and share it with the Fayetteville/Cumberland County community.

"I had begun thinking about this a few years before I actually brought it to the board of Cumberland Choral Arts. I brought it to our board in the summer of 2019 after watching Beyonce's Homecoming performance on Netflix. She started to sing "Lift Every Voice and Sing," and when I heard her hit those first few notes it was like a lightbulb went off. I broke out my iPad and created a shell of the program," said Vandervort-Miller.

This year's theme is "The Harlem Renaissance," a time in American history during which a cultural revival of African American music, art, philosophy, literature and theater took place and forever changed the landscape of American culture on a broader scale.

"I think what makes this show in particular great is that it's lighthearted. You'll definitely come away with something different every year. Every year has a different theme. Last year we focused on women composers and vocalists,” said Vandervort-Miller.

The Harlem Renaissance brought about notable and famous individuals alike. This includes the likes of Langston Hughes, Louis Armstrong, W. E. B. Du Bois, Ella Fitzgerald, James Weldon Johnson and more. For those familiar with Johnson, he is the author of the poem and song, "Lift Every Voice and Sing" in which the musical takes its namesake. The song invokes times of hardship, the spirit of perseverance, the desire for justice, and deliverance from the cruelties of slavery and prejudice experienced by the Black population in America.

This message still rings true with many Black Americans today. The words stand as a cultural and historical touchstone for the Black community, and, in larger part, for all Americans as well.

"For me, it's part of my history and part of my culture. Growing up a Black American it's never not been a part of my cultural identity. I think I might have learned it about the same time I learned our national anthem. It's always been a part of my musical life," said Vandervort-Miller.

The show's appeal comes from this personal perspective of sharing and appreciating one's culture. One of the art's many beauties is its ability to provoke conversations both internally and externally.

Learning to appreciate the unique perspectives, lived experiences, and cultures of one another is an important step toward fostering a healthy appreciation for all of the things that make us similar. Our shared love for creativity and expression are just two examples of the many traits we share as human beings.

As Vandervort-Miller puts it, "We want people to come and be informed about what the theme for that year is, but ultimately we want people to have fun, and walk away from it feeling good and rejuvenated. Our show is a light-hearted, fun performance with history thrown in."

"The focus is to lend a different perspective to Black history and shine a light on a period within Black history for people to come and have a fun time," Miller continued.

With a planned performance from the Fayetteville Jazz Orchestra, the musical heightens the experience with big band numbers and encourages the audience to dress in period-appropriate clothing to better immerse oneself in the time period. All of these pieces come together to promise a show that will impress, entertain and stay on people's minds.

This year's performance, and those before it, are made possible because of the amazing organization and teamwork of members of the Cumberland Choral Arts and the team behind Vandervort-Miller working together to bring her vision of black history-inspired musical theater to the stage.

"The support from the board of directors of the Cumberland Choral Arts has been invaluable to this project, and specifically the board president Sandy Cage and CCA secretary Cathy Thaman. Brandley Laub is another board member who has been invaluable. Alexandra Marth has also been extremely helpful in marketing the show this year and getting us in front of people and faces who might not have seen us before."

"They have all just been absolutely invaluable. I'd also be remiss if I didn't mention our artistic director for Cumberland Choral Arts which is Dr. Michael Martin. I have an incredible support team with this organization and I cannot be more thankful," said Vandervort-Miller.

The Lift Every Voice and Sing: A Musical Journey Through Black History show is truly something to behold. From Vandervort-Miller's spark of inspiration and love for her culture to the stage lights and opening night, Lift Every Voice and Sing: A Musical Journey Through Black History is a story not just about the history of Black Americans throughout America's history, but of their continued efforts to strive for success, excellence and have a positive influence on the communities and society around them.

It is a story of how people come together to create things they find beautiful and inspiring and their efforts to share them with others in the hopes that they too might find their creations beautiful and inspiring.

This cycle of inspiration and creation is something that connects us all as human beings. It allows us to experience each other's individual perspectives, beliefs and values, and to share them in kind. When we support endeavors to create art that helps facilitate that unity in expression, we are also supporting the opportunity to do the same for ourselves and for others in the future.

Lift Every Voice and Sing: A Musical Journey Through Black History will be performed live at Fayetteville State University's J.W. Seabrook Auditorium at 1200 Murchison Road in Fayetteville. The performance will begin at 7:30 p.m. and be held on Feb. 17. Tickets are$15 and are available first-come first-serve.

For more information about the event, visit https://www.cumberlandchoralarts.org/lift-every-voice-concert/ . Tickets can be purchased at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/lift-every-voice-and-sing-a-musical-journey-through-black-history-tickets-788442120607?aff=ebdsoporgprofile.

“Fort Liberty honors the heroism, sacrifices, and values of the Soldiers Service Members, Civilians and Families who live and served with this installation. Fort Liberty is the Army’s Premier Power Platform for the Army and the largest installation by population. Fort Liberty trains more than 1 million soldiers a year across 172,000 acres of land. The combined total population of the installation is 282,000 including a little over 50,000 service members and more than 20,000 Department of the Army civilians and contractors,” according to the Fort Liberty fact sheet.

Fort Liberty conducted a readiness exercise on Jan. 24, from 7 a.m. to 5 p.m. within various locations on the installation.

“The Garrison conducts tabletop exercises throughout the year to identify concerns and refine SOP and response plans. Readiness exercises like this provide a controlled environment with our Emergency Operations Center to ensure we are able to validate our standard operating procedures,” said Shane Woodmancy, installation emergency manager.

Army Installation Management Command is “tasked with providing quality Soldier and family services, managing post infrastructure, integrating base operations and supporting warfighter deployability during emergencies such as inclement weather, power outages, cyber attacks and mass casualty events,” said April Olsen, media relations, Fort Liberty Public Affairs Office.

The readiness exercise on Jan. 24 was an active shooter on the installation. An active shooter event occurred on. October 27. 1995: “1 soldier was killed and 20 others were hurt Friday when a sniper opened fire on an athletic field at Fort Bragg (Liberty). The sniper allegedly fired on his unit as they prepared to start a morning run, a Fort Bragg (Liberty) spokesperson said,” according to CNN.

“It is better to prepare for the worst, so that you are ready for the least…it is to make sure we are prepared for whatever disaster is coming,” said Adam Buehler, Lead Fort Liberty Installation Emergency Manager. “In this exercise, an active shooter led to a hostage negotiation…we must be ready for everything from natural disasters to acts of violence.’’

The Fort Liberty Emergency Operation Center consists of Garrison command staff, “people from finance to logistics, law enforcement, fire, emergency services, all those elements send representatives here” said Buehler.

The active shooter readiness exercise was inclusive of a mock press conference representing the event in ongoing stages on the installation. Col. John Wilcox, Fort Liberty Garrison Commander, provided updates of the active shooter. The Fire Chief, Military Police, Family Services and Emergency Services officials were available for the journalist role-players. The mock press conference included questions and follow-up to Col. Wilcox and assembled essential personnel.

“Readiness exercises…...ensures we are able to provide the best services and responses possible to all the units, Soldiers, civilians who live and work on Fort Liberty,” said Shane Woodmancy.

What does Old John’s, a diner on the Upper West Side of New York City, have to do with North Carolina?

An article titled “The Best Diners Are Still Just Diners” in the January 7 edition of The New Yorker praised Old John’s for staying true to its nostalgic ideal.

The author, Helen Rosner, celebrates diners who have remained diners.

“I always read the whole menu at a diner, but I don’t really need to. My order is both predictable and unremarkable: a cup of soup, a cheeseburger with fries. Sometimes I’ll switch things up and have a Greek salad, with extra feta cheese, or corned-beef hash and scrambled eggs, though the side of fries always remains.

A cup of coffee—lots of milk—and a slice of pie. If I were to scroll back through my life, tallying every diner meal, every fat ceramic mug of watery coffee, I think they might number in the thousands.”

Rosner reminds me of my regular breakfast order at Sutton’s in Chapel Hill. “Two over easy with bacon and, sometimes, grits.” Martha, Hollie, or Elsie, always attentive and smiling, know what I want before I open my mouth.

Rosner, who was writing about Old John’s (though she could have been writing about Sutton’s) said, “There are people who think of a diner as just a place to get a meal, and then there are those of us who understand diners, who cherish them, who seek them out and settle into them. We are recharged by time spent in diners in the way that adults who emerged from happy childhoods are recharged by a visit to their parents’ home.
Every diner is different; every diner is exactly the same. The ideal of a diner—its promise, its function—is not to be great but to be there. To be open when you need a restaurant to be open, to have seats when you need to sit, to exist sufficiently outside of time and space and trend that its reliability is itself reliable.”

For more than 35 years I have been writing about such diners and other eateries in North Carolina, where locals eat, and visitors are welcome. My readers liked those columns better than my usual ones about politics and books. When I invited them to write about their favorite local haunts, I got enough material for more columns and for a series of magazine articles that featured local eateries near the interstates.

All that led to UNC Press’s “North Carolina’s Roadside Eateries: A Traveler’s Guide to Local Restaurants, Diners, and Barbecue Joints” in 2016.

Because the book helped readers find North Carolina eateries that were like Old John‘s in New York, “Roadside Eateries” was a great success.

But there are problems. Thanks to Covid and changing tastes, more than 30 of the book’s eateries have closed including the following, listed by nearby interstates:

I-26: Ward’s Grill; Saluda.
I- 40: Judge’s Riverside, Morganton; Smith Street Diner, Greensboro; Allen & Son, Chapel Hill; Margaret’s Cantina, Chapel Hill; Toot-n-Tell Restaurant, Garner; Holland’s Shelter Creek Fish Camp, Burgaw.
I-73 & 74: Dixie III Restaurant, Asheboro; Hill’s Lexington Barbecue, Winston-Salem.
I-77: Acropolis Cafe & Grill, Cornelius; Carolina Bar-B-Q, Statesville; The Cook Shack, Union Grove; The Lantern Restaurant, Dodson.
I-85: Wink’s King of Barbecue, Salisbury; Tommy’s Barbecue, Thomasville; Captain Tom’s Seafood Restaurant, Thomasville; Angelo’s Family Restaurant, Graham; Bob’s Bar-B-Q, Creedmoor; Nunnery-Freeman Barbecue, Henderson.
I-95: Sheff’s Seafood Restaurant, Pembroke; Candy Sue’s Restaurant, Lumberton; Fuller’s Old Fashion Bar-B-Q Lumberton (relocated to Pembroke); Durham; Miss Maude’s Café, Smithfield; Holt Lake Bar-B-Q & Seafood, Smithfield; Bill’s Barbecue and Chicken Restaurant, Wilson; Broadnax Diner, Seaboard.

Their loss the bad news.

The good news is replacements have been found and UNC Press plans to publish an updated edition on April 1.

You can find a preview and a new cover at https://uncpress.org/book/9781469660936/north-carolinas-roadside-eateries-revised-and-expanded-edition/ or Google UNC Press Roadside Eateries

Editor’s Note: D.G. Martin, a retired lawyer, served as UNC-System’s vice president for public affairs and hosted PBS-NC’s North Carolina Bookwatch.

The Fayetteville (NC) Chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Incorporated, and the Fayetteville Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta is set to host the A Krimson & Cream Affair on Saturday, Feb. 17, at 7 p.m. This dazzling event will unfold at the Iron Mike Conference Center on 2658 Rock Merritt Avenue, promising an unforgettable evening filled with elegance and excitement.

Attendees are invited to immerse themselves in a night of vibrant colors, captivating music and delightful company. The celebration of unity and camaraderie aims to unite members and supporters of the Kappa Alpha Psi and Delta Sigma Theta. Dwayne Robinson, Chairman of the Social Committee for Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity Inc. Fayetteville Alumni Chapter, shared his excitement about the event.

"Our goal is to create a space where members and friends can come together, celebrate our rich history, and forge new connections. It's not just a party; it's a celebration of our community and giving back to the next generation,” said Robinson.

The night promises delectable treats, refreshing beverages, and a dance floor alive with rhythm. Attendees are encouraged to dress to impress in semi-formal fashion, adding a touch of sophistication to the festivities.

"Events like A Krimson & Cream Affair highlight the importance of community and collaboration. It's an opportunity for individuals from different backgrounds to come together, share experiences, and enjoy a night of elegance,” Robinson said.

As the evening unfolds, participants can expect a journey through history. The Fayetteville Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta was chartered on Sept. 12, 1953, by 11 dynamic women who recognized the need for service in the community. Embarking on its 70th year of Scholarship, Service, Sisterhood and Social Action, the chapter continues to impact Fayetteville and Cumberland County through its National Five Point Programmatic Thrust. The Educational Thrust committees of the Fayetteville Alumnae Chapter work diligently on issues such as social graces, community service and scholarship opportunities for youth in the community. Their commitment to International Awareness and Involvement, Economic Development, Educational Development, Physical and Mental Health and Political Awareness and Involvement is evident in their efforts to educate and initiate a 'Call to Action' in critical matters.

The Fayetteville (NC) Alumni Chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Incorporated, with its roots dating back to Feb. 25, 1957, has a rich history. The charter members, including Ernest E. Miller, Booker T. McNeil, and others, instilled principles of leadership and achievement in every field of human endeavor. The Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity and Delta Sigma Theta Sorority have been pillars in Fayetteville, shaping the community for decades.

As the A Krimson & Cream Affair unfolds, it not only promises an evening of elegance and excitement but pays homage to the rich history and impactful contributions of these two distinguished organizations in Fayetteville. Take advantage of this chance to participate in a celebration combining glamour, history, and a sense of community. Mark your calendars and join the Fayetteville (NC) Chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Incorporated, and the Fayetteville Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta for a night to remember.

Tickets for the event cost $75 and can be purchased at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/a-krimson-and-cream-affair-hosted-by-fayetteville-chapters-of-and-tickets-759705308027.

On January 30th, the Greater Fayetteville Chamber held its 2024 Annual Awards at The Carolina Barn, sponsored by the Huff Family Office, Piedmont Natural Gas, and Fort Liberty Federal Credit Union.

The event brought together esteemed professionals, community leaders, and entrepreneurs to celebrate the remarkable achievements of individual and business members that have significantly contributed to the prosperity of Fayetteville. With over 300 attendees from the local business community, the event was a resounding success.

Our Chamber team extends its congratulations to all the winners and expresses gratitude to the entire business community for their continued commitment to excellence.

"This year's Annual Awards ceremony truly showcased the incredible talent and dedication within our business community," said Chamber President and CEO, Nat Robertson.

"We are proud to honor these exceptional individuals and organizations that contribute to the success and vitality of Greater Fayetteville. Their accomplishments inspire us all and serve as a testament to the resilience and innovation that define our community."

In recognition of our outstanding local achievers, we are pleased to announce the 17 winners of the 2024 Annual Awards as follows:

Excellence in Innovation Award: Public Works Commission

Business Beautification Award: Miller’s Brew

Best in Communication Award: Up & Coming Weekly

Young Professional of the Year Award: Ella Wrenn, Cape Fear Regional Theatre

Public Service Award: Johnny Wilson, Fayetteville Urban Ministry

Outstanding Educator of the Year: Dr. Marvin Connelly, Cumberland County Schools

Ambassador of the Year Award: Jordan Blake, 5 West Media Group

Chairman’s Service Award: Joseph “BEAR” Dewberry, On-After Bar & Grub

Government Relations Service Award: Henry Tyson, Tyson Commercial Real Estate

Military Affairs Council Service Award: Greg Dudak, Mercedes of Fayetteville

Non-Profit of the Year: Cumberland Community Foundation

Small Business of the Year: Bubba’s 33 Restaurant

Business of the Year: Mercedes of Fayetteville

Realtor’s Cup: Dr. Larry Keen

The Chamber’s Breece Legacy Award: John “Mac” Healy, Healy Wholesale; Judy Dawkins, Community Supporter; Anthony & Joanne Chavonne, CityView Media

For more information about our events or to become a sponsor, email events@faybiz.com.

Get ready to catch football fever because Super Bowl Sunday is just around the corner!

The teams are set. The San Francisco 49ers will face off against the Kansas City Chiefs for Super Bowl LVIII on Sunday, Feb. 11 at Allegiant Stadium in Las Vegas, NV.

Whether you're a die-hard football fanatic or just enjoy the commercials and halftime show, there's something for everyone on Super Bowl Sunday. Don't miss out on the electrifying atmosphere and camaraderie that only the Super Bowl can deliver.

To help you find your local game-day spot we've rounded up the best places to catch the big game with fellow enthusiasts.

So put on your team colors and get ready to cheer on your favorite team as they battle it out for football supremacy.

• Mac's Speed Shop at 482 N. McPherson Church Road, 910-354-2590
https://www.facebook.com/MacsFayetteville
— Mac’s has party platters you can pre-order if you need a gameday spread for a watch party at home.

• Huske at 405 Hay Street, 910-437-9905
https://www.facebook.com/huskehardwarerestaurant

• District House of Taps at 1240 Fort Bragg Road, 910-491-6737
— Taking reservations and are extending their hours to accommodate the end of the game.
https://www.facebook.com/districthouseoftaps

• Scrub Oaks at 5780 Ramsey Street, 910-884-3072
https://www.facebook.com/scruboaks

• Bubba's 33 at 500 Westwood Shopping Center, 910-223-2601
http://tinyurl.com/4z3n44zw

• Latitude 35 Bar & Grill at 1217 Hay Street, 910-485-4777
http://tinyurl.com/5ast2n6x

• Gaston Brewing Company at 124 Hay Street, 910-748-0580
https://www.facebook.com/gbc910

• Walk-On's Sports Bistreaux at 2116 Skibo Road, 910-779-4901
https://www.facebook.com/WalkOnsFayetteville

• Buffalo Wild Wings at 2097 Skibo Road, 910-868-1561
https://www.facebook.com/BWWFayettevilleNC

• KickBack Jack's at 5081 Morgantaon Road, 910-223-7676
https://www.facebook.com/KBJFayetteville
• Hooters at 501 N. McPherson Church Road, 910-868-0700
https://www.facebook.com/HootersofFayetteville/

• Carolina Ale House at 161 Glensfood Drive, 910-860-1114
https://www.facebook.com/CAHFayetteville

• H8ters at 2926 C Fort Bragg Road, 910-835-5881
https://www.facebook.com/H8tersH3

• Louie's Sports Bar at 2417 Robeson Street, 910-323-3373
https://www.facebook.com/Louiessportspub

Be sure to visit the Facebook page listed or call your chosen venue for further details on the big game.

HERWeek hosted by NC CEED and the Women’s Business Center is preparing for its annual HERWeek during Women’s History Month, March 2 to 8.

NC CEED has opened applications for HERPitch training classes which is a prerequisite for participation in the HERPitch competition. In previous years, pitch winners have been awarded $2,500 to $7,500 in grants. HERWeek is a week-long celebration where we celebrate women and their remarkable contributions to our community. On HERPITCH day entrepreneurs, who completed a PITCH course and have been selected to participate, present their business idea in a 3 minute pitch to a panel of judges for the chance to win a reimbursable grant.

Hannah de la Reyes Stevenson of Rosette Visual Art was a HERPitch winner from HERWeek in March 2023. She shared her experience of participating and winning the HERPitch.

“I came to the Fayetteville Women’s Business Center to learn about running a business and I was told that there was a contest in a few weeks to win business fund money. I was skeptical about joining with it coming up so soon. But the wonderful mentors there not only encouraged me but also trained me on how to pitch a business. I am so grateful for their patience, honest feedback, and kindness," de la Reyes Stevenson said.

For businesses and entrepreneurs interested in participating in the HERWeek Pitch Prep; How to Pitch Training, starting online on Jan. 27, or seeking further information and enrollment details, please visit https://www.eventbrite.com/e/pitch-training-session-tickets-759823150497?aff=ebdsoporgprofile

This training prepares you to compete in the #HERpitch Business Pitch Competition to pitch your great idea and have the opportunity to win funding with a reimbursable grant.

Learn how to create your business pitch! In this training, we will go over:
• The basics of pitching your business
• Important things to include in your pitch
• What to expect when you compete in the business pitch competition

About Women's Business Center of Fayetteville:

The Women's Business Center of Fayetteville is a dedicated organization focused on empowering women entrepreneurs and providing them with the resources, training, and support they need to succeed in the business world.

By offering comprehensive programs and events, the center aims to foster economic growth and promote self-sufficiency in the community.

To learn more, visit www.wbcfay.org.

Will North Carolina snag one of two new Major League Baseball franchises? That’s what Gov. Roy Cooper, Carolina Hurricanes owner Tom Dundon, and other civic and business leaders are hoping.

They’re prepping a bid for a team to be based either in Raleigh or Charlotte. As soon as MLB announces its process and timeline, they’ll try to make their Carolina baseball dream a reality.

I couldn’t care less, frankly. I don’t follow professional sports closely — and even if I did, my interest would be in football, not baseball. Still, it’s a free country. If MLB does decide to expand to 32 teams and a North Carolina ownership group uses its own resources to go after a franchise, fine by me.

That’s not what will happen, however. The prospective owners will demand that taxpayers subsidize their team by building a ballpark for it. They’ll argue that such a project will expand our economy and create new jobs. This is, in a word, false.

“Sports stadiums are provably ineffective economic development tools,” writes John Mozena, a fellow with the Better Cities Project. “Once you look past rosy economic impact predictions and the glittering stadium renderings, the evidence of decades’ worth of real-world results from across the country is crystal clear: Stadiums strike out when it comes to economic development.”

Last September, the Journal of Economic Surveys published a comprehensive review by three university professors of more than 130 academic studies of the issue. The results “confirm the decades-old consensus of very limited economic impacts of professional sports teams and stadiums,” the authors wrote. “Even with added nonpecuniary social benefits from quality-of-life externalities and civic pride, welfare improvements from hosting teams tend to fall well short of covering public outlays.”

In other words, it costs taxpayers more to subsidize a sports enterprise than they get back in benefits.

Some taxpayers don’t mind, of course. They are superfans who regularly attend games and derive personal enjoyment from following the team. But most residents compelled to subsidize the stadium don’t fit this description. The only way the math works for them is to benefit indirectly — by attracting legions of free-spending fans from elsewhere, or to raise the national profile of their community in ways that promote growth and development.

That’s always the promise. It’s rarely the result. “Nearly all empirical studies find little to no tangible impacts of sports teams and facilities on local economic activity,” the professors concluded, “and the level of venue subsidies typically provided far exceeds any observed economic benefits.”

On other issues, competing philosophical camps may hurl competing studies at each other. That’s not the case here. In 2016, three scholars affiliated with the left-of-center Brookings Institution wrote that “decades of academic studies consistently find no discernible positive relationship between sports facilities and local economic development, income growth, or job creation.”

Tim Carney, a senior fellow at the right-of-center American Enterprise Institute, made a similar point in a 2022 column. “A city or county does not see net economic growth from subsidizing stadiums,” he wrote. “This is one of the most consistent findings in economics.”

Now, I wasn’t born yesterday. And I’m hardly new to the stadium beat. Although the case against sports subsidies is solid, I knew full well that advocates of a Carolina team will lobby aggressively to grab our money to fund their pet project. Some politicians will fold quickly (as Governor Cooper already has). But others will understand that a tax dollar spent on a baseball park represents a tax dollar not spent on a core public service, or not available to taxpayers to spend on a good or service of their choice.

Fiscal conservatives should be ready for a long fight. We should block any attempt to use state revenues or regional authorities to subsidize a ballpark. And we should urge our city and county officials not to get distracted by shiny objects like sports franchises. They have far more important issues to work on.

Editor’s Note: John Hood is a John Locke Foundation board member. His latest books, Mountain Folk and Forest Folk, combine epic fantasy with early American history (FolkloreCycle.com).

"Woe is me” is much in the air these days, likely ginned up by the 2024 election cycle.

Actually, it is more like “woe is us,” as millions of Americans decry the direction they see our nation and the world taking. Here are some of our Chicken Little fears. Our culture is increasingly violent, facilitated by out-of-control gun ownership—more guns than Americans.

Covid threatened our lives, and human-induced climate change threatens to make the earth uninhabitable. Technology in general and A.I. in particular could get so smart, they could take control of everything, even if we humans fail to realize it. Our nation is on the brink of being overtaken by a possibly deranged, fascist dictator.

And what if ongoing global conflicts trigger World War III? Is it wise to turn life-threatening issues such as A.I. development, climate change, and space exploration over to the private sector?

The list of woes goes and goes.

Tyler Austin Harper, an assistant professor of environmental studies at Bates College in Maine, recently published an article in the New York Times, addressing what he terms “extinction panics.” Working from the adage that everything old is new again, Harper asserts that such panics occur about every hundred years and that this one has arrived right on schedule. The last one struck us in the 1920s.

The extinction panic of the 20th century has much in common with the one we are experiencing. The world had just survived a flu pandemic, estimated to have killed 50 million people across the globe. There were no effective treatments, much less vaccines to prevent it. The US economy seemed to be roaring, but it got so heated that it ultimately crashed in 1929, triggering the Great Depression.

Fueling that extinction panic was the spread of fascism in Europe, which by 1939 had blossomed into what became World War II and which ended with the world’s first atomic explosions. More than 200-thousand people died almost instantly, with hundreds of thousands more maimed and/or sickened.

It is almost impossible to miss the parallels.

Harper quotes from HG Wells’ 1928 book, The Way the World is Going, which still resonates a century later. “Human life is different from what it has ever been before, and it is rapidly becoming more different….Perhaps never in the whole history of life has there been a living species subjected to so fiercely urgent, many-sided and comprehensive a process of changes as ours today. None at least that has survived. Transformation or extinction have been nature’s invariable alternatives. Ours is a species in an intense phase of transition.”

Hard to argue with that.

Harper himself seems more optimistic than Wells. He writes in the Times, “as for machine-age angst, there’s a lesson to learn here, too: Our panics are often puffed up, our predictions simply wrong.

Human life and labor were not superseded by machines, as some in the 1920s predicted. Or in the 1960s or in the 1980s, two other flash-in-the-pan periods of A.I. hype. The takeaway is not that we shouldn’t be worried but that we shouldn’t panic. Foretelling doom is an ancient human hobby, but we don’t appear to be very good at it.”

As for this writer, the threats seem very real and increasingly urgent. But our “species,” as Wells identified us, has indeed survived millennia by using our big brains and probably some dumb luck.
We do see what is facing us, and if we really are smart, we will choose to act on these threats, not to ignore them.

Last article we examined several factors you need to consider when purchasing a home. Today we are going to go more in depth concerning what house design and house features make people like or value a home most.

In national surveys, almost all buyers list the following features as important to them:
• Separate Laundry Room
• Walk-in Kitchen Pantry
• Front porch and rear porch/deck
• Hardwood floors in the main living area
• A full bath on the first floor
• Walk-in closet in the Main Bedroom
• Eat-in Kitchen
• Dining Room
• Garage Storage space.

Some other interesting statistics about what buyers looked for in 2023
• 67% of buyers wanted a single-family home
• 60% of buyers prefered a new home
• 85% wanted an open-concept kitchen and dining room
• 40% of buyers thought about accessibility when shopping for homes
• 42% of recent and prospective home buyers want a two-car garage
• 75% of real estate agents still say that stainless steel is the most popular appliance finish, and it's now available in different colors

In addition, Floyd Properties and Development Inc. has found that higher-end buyers also like these upgrade features:
• Specialty Flooring
• Arches and Pillars
• Nook Spaces
• Areas that can host large gatherings
• Kitchen upgrades such as granite or quarts countertops; large ranges with dedicated fans and hoods; butler pantries; specialty shelving
• Bathroom upgrades such as showers with multiple heads, and separate and stand-alone soaking tubs.

Along with these higher-end upgrades, Floyd Properties is planning some Idea Homes to explore some elite design features such as:
• Integration of the outdoors by using multiple sliding glass doors or accordion doors to open to the outside
• Range hood pot fillers
• Outdoor kitchen areas
• Advanced smart technology such as remote check cameras to adjust lights, air temperature and to lock or unlock doors.
• Special purpose rooms

What do you think?

Floor Properties invites the public to help design these houses and add features. Just go to https://floydproperties.com/ and give your opinion on what upgrade features you would like to see in the Idea Houses.

“People are like stained glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.”
— Elizabeth Kubler-Ross

Cape Fear Studios is a non-profit organization. It has been the only visual arts cooperative for 32 years in Fayetteville. The mission of the Cape Fear Studios is “to involve, educate, and enrich Cumberland County and surrounding communities with the opportunity to create and freely view art.”

Bits and Pieces of Glass features distinctive and luminous stained-glass creations by Jaylene Nordgren and her students. The exhibit will be held from Jan. 11, to Feb. 20, at Cape Fear Studios, in Fayetteville.

“Stained glass has been used for thousands of years beginning with Ancient Romans and Egyptians, who produced small objects made from colored glass. Stained glass can be traced back to the 7th century with early examples found in monasteries and churches. Benedict Biscop commissioned French workers to create the stained glass for the monastery of St. Peter in 675 A.D.” according to A Short History of Stained Glass.

“In 1991, I started my journey into stained glass. I took classes from John Stoddard and Christa Moore. After several years of practice, I joined the Cape Fear Studios and began teaching. I have been teaching for over twenty years. I enjoy watching my students overcome their fear of breaking glass. They have inspired me in their various visions,” said Nordgren, Cape Fear Studios artist.

Delight in the Bits and Pieces of Glass at the Cape Fear Studios at 148 Maxwell Street. The main gallery spotlights engaging paintings, photographs, sculptures, pottery and fine jewelry by local, national and international artists. Educational workshops and classes are available to the public.

The exhibit is available for viewing on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday during the hours of 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday hours are 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Cape Fear Studios is closed on Sundays.
Admission to Bits and Pieces of Glass is free. For more information about Cape Fear Studios and the exhibit, call 910-433-2986 or visit www.capefearstudios.com.

Do you recall a period when we didn't observe Galentine's Day? This occasion, similar to Friendsgiving, was initiated by a TV program. "Friends" brought about Friendsgiving, while Galentine's Day originated from "Parks and Rec." Leslie Knope took her gal pals out to celebrate friendship and the holiday was born.

Round up your besties and honor your ride-or-die crew by attending a great local event. Take this opportunity to shower them with appreciation, laughter and a memorable experience.

February 9th:
Galentines Cooking Class- 6 p.m. at Haymount Truckstop
http://tinyurl.com/47dtaaad

February 10th:
2nd Annual Happy Galentine's Floral Party- 6 p.m. at The Downtown Market of Fayetteville
http://tinyurl.com/ym4kwva5
February Sip & Paint- 2 p.m. at Grapes & Hops
http://tinyurl.com/24c7vrnt

February 11th:
Galentines Day Brunch- 11 a.m. Village Wine Shop (Aberdeen)
http://tinyurl.com/2p8w9d4h
Cupid's Victim: A Galentine's Trivia Party- 2 p.m. at Atomic Orchard Salon
http://tinyurl.com/mr25hs5x

February 12th:
Galentine's Pajama Paint Party- 5 p.m. at Hoke Parks & Recreation
http://tinyurl.com/7vepb9fn

February 13th:
Be Mine GALentine!- 10 a.m. at Shop Cursive
http://tinyurl.com/4a85hkj6
Women on the Wall: Galentine's Day Edition- 6 p.m. at Triangle Rock Club (Fayetteville)
http://tinyurl.com/56xeb6cx
Galentines Day- 6 p.m. at Pucker Up
http://tinyurl.com/56fp6dyr
Galentine's Day Blast to the Eighties Cocktail Class- 5:30 p.m. at Circa 1800
http://tinyurl.com/ycyednbe

February 14th:
Self-Love Galentine's Day Brunch Experience- 10 a.m. at L2 Candle Bar
http://tinyurl.com/5n6n9em8

February 16th:
Galentine's Day-A Toast to Me- 6 p.m. at The Metropolitan Room
http://tinyurl.com/2kkt44u5

February 17th:
Galentine's Night Out- 5:30 p.m. at Chris's Steak & Seafood House
http://tinyurl.com/4dzhmh8r
Galentine's Brunch- 10 a.m. at Bees & Boards
http://tinyurl.com/j2sr4fc7

Cursive, previously named White Trash, and situated in the heart of downtown at 223 Franklin Street, did not have a predetermined future as a permanent store.

Molly Arnold, the proprietor of the establishment, found herself with a vacant storefront after a tenant decided to move out. Her intention was to temporarily convert the space into a pop-up store until she could secure a new tenant.

Arnold has always had a penchant for thrift stores and antique hunting, and over the course of 19 years, with some modifications, Cursive gradually transformed into a fully-fledged retail destination, thanks to the addition of her discoveries.

At Shop Cursive, you won't find your typical home decor or gift shop. It's anything but ordinary. The store offers a diverse range of one-of-a-kind products that truly stand out.

In March of last year, they started hosting zodiac birthday parties. Arnold started these celebrations to “find happy and celebrate people.” She sees the events as a way to thank her customers and celebrate them at the same time. Arnold makes a point to make an appearance at these events in order to interact with her customers and be witness to the joy and happiness these events bring to the participants.

As someone who believes in astrology, Arnold believes that one's birthdate has an influence on their personality. The zodiac birthday parties go beyond just celebrating another year of life. They hold a deeper significance as they represent the individual's distinct characteristics, talents, and passions. By commemorating someone's astrological sign, Cursive genuinely pays tribute to and values the remarkable qualities embodied by each zodiac sign.

Each month, on either the first or second Wednesday, an in-store celebration of the Zodiac of that month is celebrated. Visitors to the shop receive treats like cupcakes, candy, and chocolate, as well as wine.

All guests are given a complimentary gift, but those celebrating their birthdays receive an additional special treat.

Come alone or bring the girls with you to explore the zodiac-themed collection in the shop. It's an opportunity to make it a fun night out dedicated to celebrating yourself, just as the event was intended.

The next Zodiac Birthday Party will be Wednesday, Feb. 7, to celebrate all the Aquarius (Jan 20-Feb. 18) babies out there. Happy Birthday to you all!

Learn more about Cursive’s next Zodiac Birthday Party here: http://tinyurl.com/bdfu9388

Be sure to follow the shop on Facebook for more Zodiac Birthday Party announcements as well as some other exciting events that will be happening throughout the year: https://www.facebook.com/shopcursive.

Want to cheer yourself up by wallowing in the misery of another human being?

Of course not. Even though it might make you feel better about your own lot in life? Gentle Reader, you are much too evolved to sink to such a low level. Only a person of subterranean character would find a tale of misfortune to be amusing.

Fortunately, I proudly possess a juvenile sense of humor. I am the man for the job to find humor in an exploding toilet. Naturally, our story involves one of our old friends- Florida Man.

Florida Man is a species of homo sapiens who is always getting into colorful scrapes. I could make a crack about the Original Florida Man: Ron DeSantis, Presidential Quitter, but in a superhuman display of self-control, I will not.

Would an exploding toilet by any other name smell as sweet? What is so rare as an exploding toilet? Let us count the ways.
If bathroom humor appeals to you, keep reading. Otherwise, do not waste your time on this column. Start working on your taxes. Considering the alternative to doing your taxes, an exploding toilet story doesn’t seem so bad, does it?

Once upon a time, and for once I am not making this up, there was a Florida Man named Pete. As was done in the Dragnet TV series, the names of the parties have been changed to protect the innocent. The ghost of Detective Sgt. Joe Friday, advises “Just stick to the facts.” And the facts in this case are pretty sticky, not to mention disgusting.

Return with us now to those thrilling days of Yesteryear, way back in 2022 when Pete Smith met his match in the rest room of a restaurant in lovely Winter Park, Florida. Initially, like the late great Harry Chapin once sang: “It was just an any old kind of day, the kind that comes and slips away.”

All was calm and bright when Pete, requiring empty calories, entered the restaurant. Little did he know, that instead of being like the Lone Ranger and leaving behind a cloud of dust with a hearty “Hi Yo Silver and Away!” he would be engulfed in a cloud of feces and urine when a porcelain throne exploded.

Pete realized the need to answer the call of nature prior to enjoying a donut or two. The cause of the explosion remains unclear. However, as surely as the sun rises in the East, it occurred. According to his complaint filed with the court, Pete walked out of the bathroom “covered in feces and urine.”

He had lost his appetite. Toilets are not expected to explode. Like a herd of frozen dead Teslas in a Chicago snowstorm, something went wrong resulting in an unhappy result.

An aromatic and soggy Pete staggered out of the bathroom. He was wounded in body, mind, and spirit. Toilet shrapnel covered in human waste is not conducive to having a good day.

Seeking help from the restaurant’s staff, Pete reports he was told “they were aware of the problem with the toilet” as there had been previous incidents.

Query: How many previous toilet-related incidents are necessary to be put on notice that a plumber is needed? Pete’s lawsuit alleges he suffered bodily injury, and mental anguish, requiring counseling due to his toilet of terror trauma.

This is a case for Attorney Jackie Chiles of Seinfeld fame. Jackie would advise Pete about the merits of his case.

“You get me one person who has used a public toilet on that jury, you gonna walk outta there a rich man.”

The negligence of the restaurant is a “clear violation of your rights as a consumer of a public bathroom. It is an infringement on your Constitutional Rights. It’s deplorable, unfathomable, improbable. It’s outrageous, egregious, preposterous!”

Jackie’s cross-examination would be a wonder to behold: “Did you provide the toilet or did they provide the toilet?”

Many years ago, I personally witnessed a toilet tragedy in Southern Pines at the Stoney Brook horse races. Some fratty bagger boys had been consuming an excess of alcohol.

One of the guys went into a Porta Potty. His drunken friends thought it would be hilarious to push over the Porta Potty while he was in it. Push came to shove causing the Porta Pot to tumble over.

Frat Boy came out cursing, covered on one side in blue Porta Potty chemicals and the residue from heavy use by thousands of race fans. It was one of the worst things I ever saw.

I have often wondered if they gave him a ride home covered in rancid effluvia. Like Charlie on the MTA, he may still be wandering the racecourse.

Now don’t you feel better about your own life? Things could be worse.

You’ve spent years building and growing your business. You’ve dedicated so much of your time and energy to ensuring its success, but it can be challenging to determine when the best time is to sell.

People sell businesses for a variety of reasons. When preparing a plan for selling your business, it’s a good idea to be straightforward and honest about what it would take to prepare your company for a potential transaction. You should also develop a strategy and timeline for hitting those benchmarks. But remember, this is a guideline and it’s not set in stone.

Reasons for selling

Certainly, events can result in the need to sell your business sooner or later than you intended. However, it is wise for any business owner to spend some time considering their situation and what events may make the sale of their business necessary. Having a plan is a smart idea to prevent some headaches if you must sell sooner than you anticipated.

First, consider your financial security. For instance, will the sale of your business support your current lifestyle? You will need to consider any existing debts you have, and your cash flow needs for now and the future. Do you have other sources of income and potential long-term expenses that can be used for these debts and expenses? Investigating if the current economic environment is favorable to selling is also important.

Next, evaluate what your personal and family concerns may be around the sale of your business. Some people may need to consider selling due to a lifestyle change such as divorce or illness. You may be dealing with a conflict with your business partner that requires you to sell your business. Finally, many people are interested in selling their business simply to have more personal time or because they want to retire.

Finally, many entrepreneurs are constantly seeking their next challenge. If you have a new business interest, you may be contemplating selling your existing company. This happens when you have already achieved all your personal goals for that business. Or you may be interested in running a less intensive or hands-on business. Another reason may be that you feel someone else is needed to run the business to help it go to the next level.

 Understanding timing

Businesses have life cycles, just like living creatures. One way to evaluate the best time to sell your business is by honestly evaluating where your business is in its life. There are five stages:

Is your business new and just finding its feet? Then, it is a start-up.

The second stage is when the business grows, and you build a name, clientele, and profitability.

The middle phase occurs when the initial growth spurt slows, but you still have forward momentum.

The fourth stage happens when your profits have leveled off, and you sustain a flat growth plane.

The fifth and final stage occurs when revenues are sliding, indicating that your business is in decline.

Visualize your business’s life cycle on a bell curve. You are likely to get the best price when your business is in the sustaining phase. Waiting until past the sustaining phase may be too late in terms of maximizing buyer interest and your profitability.

Transworld Business Advisors has a team of brokers with expertise in selling businesses in a wide range of industries and a proven process to match sellers with qualified buyers. We know that selling your business can be a lot of work, but with the right help to manage the process, the sale experience can be much less stressful. For a free consultation, contact Ashley Kelsey with Transworld Business Advisors of Eastern NC at 910-302-6447 or email akelsey@tworld.com.

Prepare for an immersive love experience with Love in the Oval Ballroom on Feb. 17. It is hosted by Beespoke Vintage and Heritage Historical Society. The event features a recreation of the 1830s wedding and reception of Margaret Halliday and John Sanford.

“I am a historical clothier and own Beespoke Vintage, a business that focuses on creating clothing from the 1770s through the 1970s, recreating vintage patterns, and curating historical events,” said Rebecca A. Russell.

“While working with Mary Erwin Olive, member of the Colonial Dames, on a written project for the Oval Room’s inclusion in the Great American Treasures book, I learned about the interesting history of the buildings and the women who inhabited them. I decided to recreate the 1830s wedding of one of the Halliday daughters for whose reception oral traditions state the Oval Ballroom was originally constructed,” said Russell.

“I applied and was awarded a mini-grant from the Arts Council for support of this event. The idea to recreate the 1830s wedding and reception at the actual site was placed in active mode. Oral tradition holds that the Oval Ballroom was intended for the wedding receptions of two Halliday daughters, Mary, and Margaret Halliday. Mary Halliday married Dr. Daniel Theodore Coxe in St John’s Episcopal Church on the evening of March 4, 1830. Margaret Halliday married John. W Sanford, also at St John’s Episcopal Church on July 7, 1830.

"I chose Valentine’s Day as the perfect day to recreate Margaret Halliday and John. W Sanford’s nuptials and receptions. Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love, marriage, and engagements,” said Russell.

Marriage has existed for over 4350 years. Early marriages were based on economics, political alliances, and male heirs, according to The Week Magazine

Marriage for love was considered a radical practice. “Too much love was thought to be a real threat to the establishment of marriage. Early proponents were horrified by the idea of love. The idea of love as a prime reason for marriage began to spread in the late 18th century and 19th century partially due to the French and American Revolutions,” said Stephanie Coontz.

Love in the Oval Ballroom is a two part event: the historically recreated wedding of Halliday and Sanford, and mini ceremonies for attendees.

“Cassandra McMillion, Heritage Square Historical President, introduced the idea of hosting a mini wedding as a fun addition [to the recreation of the nuptials of Margaret and John Sanford],” said Russell.

The mini-wedding ceremony symbolizes the elements of marriage, love, mutual respect and sacrifice. It is commitment. When a person says, “I Do,” it is a beautiful, memorable, and life-defining moment. The wedding ceremony is a public acknowledgment of love and commitment.

Love in the Oval Ballroom will feature the proposal, wedding vows or renewal experience. Enjoy an official wedding, and make sure to bring the marriage license, IDs, and other required documents prior to the ceremony. Here is the website for information about documentation https://www.nccourts.gov/help-topics/divorce-and-marriage/marriage .

The ceremonies are limited to 30 minutes in the Oval Ballroom. The photography package includes professional editing, 6 digital images, and a 12 x 16 print. There is the option to invite 30 guests. Please register for the proposal, wedding, renewals experience by Feb. 9. The fee is $750 per couple. The hours are 1 p.m., 1:30 p.m., 2 p.m., 2:30 p.m., 4 p.m., 5:30 p.m., 6 p.m. and 6:30 p.m. on February 17.

The second part of the Love in the Oval Ballroom event is the 1830 Wedding Presentation. This aspect will feature the immersive experience of attending Margaret and John Sanford’s 1830 wedding ceremony and reception.

Prior to attending the reenactment of the wedding and reception, there will be a presentation of the wedding tradition, fashion, architecture, history of the Oval Ballroom, and family history of the residents.

The public is encouraged to wear costumes of the early Regency and Victorian eras. Costumes are not required to attend the wedding and reception. The historical presentation begins at 3 p.m. on Feb. 17.

The Oval Ballroom is located at Heritage Square, 225 Dick Street. The ticket link is https://allevents.in/fayetteville/love-in-oval- ballroom/80003146032347. The ticket cost is $25.00. Ticket information is available on the website, Bespoke Vintage, https://wwwbeespokevintage.com. The event is limited to 30 people.

Mardi Gras, also known as Fat Tuesday, is a vibrant and lively celebration that has a rich history spanning several centuries.

This annual event has become synonymous with indulgence, revelry, and colorful parades. The roots of Mardi Gras can be traced back to ancient Roman festivals of fertility and abundance, but its modern incarnation can be attributed to French settlers in the city of New Orleans.

The history of Mardi Gras in New Orleans dates back to the early 18th century when French explorers established the city. They brought with them the tradition of celebrating Mardi Gras, a time of feasting and merrymaking before the solemn period of Lent.

Over the years, the celebration evolved and incorporated elements from various cultures, including Native American and African traditions.

Today, Mardi Gras has become a unique blend of different influences, making it one of the most iconic and anticipated events in the world.

The heart of Mardi Gras lies in its elaborate parades, flamboyant costumes, and vibrant music. Krewes, which are social organizations responsible for planning and organizing the festivities, play a significant role in the celebration.

Each Krewe has its own theme and designs elaborate floats that are paraded through the streets for all to see. Spectators line the sidewalks, eagerly waiting to catch beads, trinkets, and other treasures thrown from the floats.

Mardi Gras is not only a time for revelry but also an opportunity for communities to come together and celebrate. It is a chance for people from all walks of life to forget their worries and immerse themselves in the joyous atmosphere.

The streets of New Orleans come alive with laughter, music, and dancing as locals and visitors alike join in the festivities.

The history of Mardi Gras is a fascinating tale of cultural fusion and celebration. From its humble beginnings as a religious observance, to its current status as a global phenomenon, Mardi Gras continues to captivate and enchant people from all around the world.

Here in Fayetteville, the celebrations may be a bit small, but that doesn't mean you can't throw a fabulous Mardi Gras party in your home.

Guide to Mardi Gras Party at Home

Can't make it to New Orleans to join the festivités? Bring the Big Easy home with our Ultimate Guide to Throwing a New Orleans-inspired party. So put on your mask, grab some beads, and let the spirit of Mardi Gras carry you away!

Set the Mood with Music
Perhaps one of the most essential elements that make Mardi Gras truly unforgettable is the music. Music is the beating heart of Mardi Gras, infusing every street corner and party venue with infectious rhythms that compel everyone to dance and let loose. From the soulful sounds of jazz to the energetic beats of zydeco, music sets the tone for this grand celebration like no other.

Here are some great resources to compose the ultimate Mardi Gras playlist:
NOLA School of Music's Ultimate Mardi Gras Playlist: http://tinyurl.com/59c27pxf
37 Songs for Your Mardi Gras Music Playlist from The Bash: http://tinyurl.com/3z95p5nv

Plan the Menu
One of the most important aspects of any party is the food, and planning your Mardi Gras party menu is no exception. The rich and vibrant flavors of Cajun and Creole cuisine are a must-have for this festive occasion. From jambalaya to gumbo, there are countless recipes that will transport your guests straight to the heart of Louisiana.

To start off your Mardi Gras feast, consider serving some traditional appetizers like crawfish dip or spicy shrimp cocktail. These dishes are sure to get your guests' taste buds dancing in anticipation of what's to come.
For the main course, you can't go wrong with a classic jambalaya. Packed with bold flavors and a mix of meats like sausage and chicken, this hearty dish is a true crowd-pleaser. If you're feeling adventurous, you can also try your hand at making gumbo, a rich stew filled with shrimp, sausage, and okra.

No Mardi Gras celebration would be complete without some delicious desserts. King cake is an absolute must-have for this occasion. This sweet and colorful pastry is traditionally served during the Carnival season and is typically filled with cinnamon or cream cheese. Another popular dessert is beignets, which are deep-fried doughnuts dusted with powdered sugar. These pillowy treats are perfect for dipping into a cup of café au lait.

Get inspired with some of these great recipes:
50 Classic Mardi Gras Recipes from Southern Living: http://tinyurl.com/bdhc7e23
Must-Have Mardi Gras Recipes from Southern Discourse: http://tinyurl.com/mry4232k

Spread the Purple, Green & Gold Around
You are for sure going to need some fabulous decorations that will transport your guests straight to the heart of New Orleans. Mardi Gras is all about indulgence, celebration, and vibrant colors, so it's important to set the mood with the right decorations. From purple, green, and gold streamers to festive masks and beads, there are so many creative ways to transform your space into a Mardi Gras wonderland.

Start by setting the scene with a colorful backdrop. Hang purple, green, and gold curtains or fabric to create a backdrop reminiscent of the iconic Mardi Gras parade floats. You can also use balloons in these vibrant colors to add a touch of fun and whimsy. Scatter confetti or glitter on tables and countertops to give your party that extra sparkle. Don't forget to incorporate traditional Mardi Gras symbols like fleur-de-lis or jester hats into your decorations for an authentic touch.

Another essential element of any Mardi Gras party is masks and beads. Provide your guests with an assortment of masks in various colors and styles so they can fully embrace the spirit of the celebration. You can also hang strings of beads around the party area or use them as table centerpieces. Not only do these decorations add a festive touch, but they also make for great photo opportunities.

To take your Mardi Gras decorations to the next level, consider incorporating some themed props. Set up a photo booth area with props like feather boas, oversized sunglasses, and sequined hats for your guests to pose with. This will not only encourage interaction and fun but also create lasting memories.

Take some decorating notes from these great sites:
Family-Friendly Mardi Gras Dinner Party from Giggles Galore: http://tinyurl.com/5avseruv
11 Vibrant Mardi Gras Party Ideas for Adults to Nail the Celebration from Sixth Selle: http://tinyurl.com/bdfwrspa

Let the Good Drinks Flow
From vibrant cocktails to traditional New Orleans favorites, there are plenty of options to choose from that will have your guests feeling like they're right in the heart of the French Quarter. One popular choice is the classic Hurricane cocktail, a fruity and rum-filled drink that is sure to get the party started. Another great option is the Sazerac, a traditional New Orleans cocktail made with rye whiskey, absinthe, and sugar. The bold flavors of this drink perfectly capture the spirit of Mardi Gras.

And let's not forget about the iconic Mardi Gras punch, a festive blend of fruit juices and spirits that is as delicious as it is colorful. No matter which drinks you choose to serve at your Mardi Gras party, one thing is for sure - they will definitely add to the overall celebration and make your guests feel like they're part of the festivities in the Big Easy.

Find something fabulous for your guest here:
13 Mardi Gras Cocktails to Sip and Savor Like a Boss from Dine with Drinks: http://tinyurl.com/4c79rcfc
25+ Mardi Gras Mocktails from 3 Boys and a Dog: http://tinyurl.com/wny6fhe2

Remember, Mardi Gras is all about letting loose and embracing the joy of life. So go all out with your celebration and let your creativity shine through. Whether you choose to go for a traditional approach or put your own unique spin on things, your Mardi Gras party is sure to be a hit.

So, get ready to party like they do in the Big Easy and let the good times roll!

No stranger to taking on plays with intense subject matter, Gilbert Theater is taking it back in time with In the Blood.

This production has a history with the theater, a favorite of Lynn Pryer, the former art director. “[This was] his favorite show that he ever had anything to do with at the Gilbert,” said Larry Carlisle, current AD of the theater.

In the Blood was written by Suzan-Lori Parks in 1999.

Although most of the productions at the theater are family-friendly, this particular production has a rating of M for mature audiences. Parents considering bringing their children should be aware of strong language, blood, sexual suggestions, and other adult themes. Shows start Feb. 2nd and run through Feb. 18th, Friday through Sunday with one show per day. Friday and Saturday shows are at 8 p.m. and Sunday's show is at 2 p.m. Tickets are $20, with discounts for teachers, military, seniors, and groups.

In the Blood is a story of a woman named Hester, who is homeless with her five children. The play follows her trials and tribulations through “Confessions,” a monologue leading to the scene. Each scene is powerful, forcing audiences to question their prejudices and biases. Taking center stage as Hester is Lumberton native, local thespian, and Gilbert Theater veteran, Jackie Hill.

“I love to entertain. I entertained when I was serving my country and also right in Lumberton at the Carolina Civic Center in productions. I’m so glad to be back at the Gilbert… I’m also in school. Theater is my major,” she said of her career as an entertainer.

Although a seasoned entertainer, the role of Hester challenged Hill in a way that has not only expanded her acting range but opened her mind.

“Can I be someone homeless with five children? But the more I got into my rehearsing, I say that you can be Hester and you don’t have to be homeless. I know from some of my own life experiences. So now I face Hester, and I become her little by little… I believe the way I felt about it at first is exactly how people feel when it comes to homeless people or people out here in distress. The first thing they kinda do is put them under their feet or they have a judgment…We don’t know everyone’s situation and we don’t know who’s one day away from it,” Hill said of the role.

Directing this year’s production is Ayana Washington, founder of Book Black Women and star of many local productions including the record-breaking run of Matilda at Cape Fear Regional Theater and The Color Purple.

Her talent and knowledge of the stage go far beyond gracing its stage. Washington has held several backstage support roles in productions like The Addams Family as well. In the Blood called for a director like Washington.

“Everybody knows Ayana, and everybody loves Ayana… Ayana has been involved in lots of stuff all around town and in various capacities and at the Gilbert we wanted to make sure that we are creating a place where we could amplify diversity… this play is really powerful… I didn’t want to direct it myself,” said Carlisle.

“I heard the Gilbert was looking to diversify and I really wanted to be a part of it, especially since they were doing a black show, during Black History Month with an all-black cast,” Washington said.

“I am used to most of the black shows being trauma-based and I wanted the challenge, so I jumped on it. This show is about black trauma and everything that has to do with it, every element. I think more so black female trauma. It touches on a lot of topics that affect different types of black women but it’s all happening to this one character. It spans.

"I wanted the challenge of bringing that to life, finding nuggets of comedic relief… [they] asked me and I said yes, of course. So many theaters who do black shows and the production team cannot relate. That is always a frustration of mine. So the fact that they have this black show and they came looking for a black director speaks volumes,” said Washington on her decision to accept the position as director.

Washington will also host talks after each Saturday show to help attendees carry on the conversation long after they have left and start a deeper conversation within our community.

Volunteers for the front of the house are always needed and appreciated. Those interested should reach out via email to om@gilbertheater.com. 

For tickets visit https://www.gilberttheater.com/2023-2024-season/ or call 910-678-7186.

Continuing the success of the 100 Professional Black Women in Black Photoshoot, community organizer Tiffany Campbell is at it again with the 100 Professional Black Men in Black photoshoot.

Taking place in downtown Fayetteville just like its predecessor, this event will gather local professionals, all dressed in black for a powerful photoshoot. This time, it will be professional black men in the spotlight. The historic event is set to take place on Feb. 10th from 2 p.m. to 4 p.m. Participants can start checking in at 1:45 p.m. at Segra Stadium.

There will be an opportunity for mixing and introductions until 2:15 p.m. when the first photo will take place. 100 Black Men in Black is sponsored by Fayetteville Observer, Brother Strong, Flip Flop Sauce, and Segra Stadium. Tickets are $5 and can be purchased online at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/100-professional-black-men-in-black-tickets-793832312817?aff=ebdssbdestsearch.

Campbell, a Youth Counselor Technician and owner of Elite Steps is excited to bring this opportunity to the black men of Fayetteville.

“This event is going to be epic. History is about to be made again. I expect a larger turnout since they know what the end goal is. I’m also excited for women to drop by with their sons, who don’t have male figures to attend with them, to be in a room full of professionals. I love that because due to my job I see many black young men in the system that lack male figures and they don’t always see professionals so they don’t think it’s a possibility,” she said about the event.

After 100 Professional Black Women in Black and its viral fame, Campbell didn’t want the men to think she had forgotten about them. They definitely weren’t an afterthought in her planning of these historic events.

“It was a thought as I planned the 100 Professional Black Women in Black but the true inspiration was when I saw the lingering effects of that photo shoot and the excitement of the men to have their own,” said Campbell.

100 Professional Black Men in Black is more than an event, it’s a movement. Campbell is inviting attendees to bring the young men in their lives, be they sons, nephews, or cousins, with them.

“It is extremely important for the boys to not only see it but interact so they understand that everyone has a story and being professional does not mean they don’t understand them. This gives them hope and shows them that dressing up makes you feel good - it's not a funeral or court. This will build self-esteem and hopefully help strive for greatness,” Campbell said of the importance of the event for the young men and boys in the community.

Campbell will need help the day of the photoshoot with the boys and young men who will be attending, saying, “I need men who are willing to help me look after boys whose mothers will be present but not in Segra Stadium with them ­— to look out for them while we walk. There is someone affiliated with me who is assisting parents who need assistance getting clothing for their children. I need for every child to feel their best and look their best. As we help many of them see something that is not common.”

The plans for the future are big for the founder and creator, saying, “The future is to create opportunities for us to network in hopes to create generational connections and enhance our culture. [To] create a space so that everyone can go to one place and see all we have to offer so we can support each other, collaborate and more than anything, create a safe space that’s full of love and a nurturing environment that promotes and prioritizes mental health.”

100 Professional Black Men in Black is sure to be revolutionary and conversation-starting, a catalyst for greater things. Those attending can use the hashtag #100BlkProMen to document the experience.

For more information about 100 Professional Black in Black, check out the Facebook page, https://www.facebook.com/events/396077419545584?active_tab=about.