Human nature includes the urge to give others advice, often unsolicited, about how to conduct their lives, whether we heed our own advice or not. Much of it passes with the breeze, but some registers and sticks with us. Here are some jewels that have stuck with me and guided me in more than a few tricky situations.
From my mother. No matter how smart and/or educated you may believe yourself to be, every person you will ever meet knows something you do not, so pay attention.
From an older cousin on raising children. If you want to raise children who embrace the world with curiosity instead of fear, always say “yes” unless you must say “no.”
From a crusty old journalist. If you have something positive to say to someone, write it to them so they can enjoy your words and share them with others. If your message is negative, say it and get it behind you.
And, from a gentle and wise mother. When I was trying to keep our sons away from He-Man toys, which I believed--and still do--present a false and ridiculous view of manhood. You cannot protect your children from their culture.
I wish the current crop of book banners in the North Carolina General Assembly and in Congress could hear that truth.
As part of a national effort supported by the Trump administration to shield information from students, a bill wending its way through the state legislature would establish a committee composed of both parents and educators to recommend which books and movies should be approved or banned in public and charter schools. Those recommendations would be available for public comment and ultimately approved by the local school board. It proposes civil penalties for schools that do not comply and will be sued.
Such moves are being made all over the country, all labeled as “parental rights” by book banners and “censorship” by opponents. They are efforts to appease a voting base by people who have outside influence in the current political climate.
However one views these book banning efforts, the truth is that we cannot keep our current culture, however toxic it may seem to some Americans, from our children short of keeping all outside influences—books, social media, contact with their peers and other people—out of reach. Today’s parents already know how impossible that has become in the electronic era. The other painful truth is that while some information may be disturbing or painful for students, ignorance of facts can harm them, often profoundly and for a lifetime.
Take sex, a topic both parents and children find difficult to address and one which can derail lives through STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and other difficulties. Ignorance of the facts of life is not bliss for vulnerable young people. Ditto for drugs and other illegal substances. “Just say no” has never been an effective strategy. Young people see others, both their peers and adults, using alcohol and other substances and realize that they can generate pleasurable experiences as well as harm.
Do as I say, not as I do, is not an effective message. Factual information can be.
This is not an academic or political argument. It goes to whether and how we protect our children. Do we do that by withholding information from them or by providing them with accurate information? Better yet, think about your own youth.
Did just say no work or little information work for you? Did ignorance take you down a painful path?
Do you want that for your children?

The shooting incidents a few weeks ago that disrupted the Dogwood Festival, Downtown Fayetteville’s most anticipated Springtime event, have triggered a plethora of misguided assumptions and solutions to addressing crime in our community. Fayetteville Mayor Mitch Colvin’s response to this recent shooting incident was to initiate recommendations for a youth curfew, along with other placebo-style regulations, like banning face masks and backpacks on city property and during city-sponsored events (say goodbye to Fourth Fridays & Fayetteville After Five). Soviet style surveillance cameras, license-plate readers, and sophisticated facial recognition technology, and increasing the Crime Stoppers reward to $5,000 will only encourage criminals to snitch on other criminals. Honestly, Colvin’s quick response to target Fayetteville’s youth as the catalyst of this crime crisis is misguided, and makes his rash recommendations resonate more like the foundation of his campaign re-election speech.
Defying reason and common sense, the City Council in their infinite wisdom voted 8 to 2 for Colvin’s citywide youth curfew, with only councilmen Mario Benavente and Deno Hondros voting against it. Mario B articulated his concerns clearly and questioned the curfews' effectiveness, the complex logistics of curfew enforcement, and, more importantly, the negative impact they would have on young people who would be introduced prematurely to the criminal justice system. He also reminded the council that of all the homicides this year in Fayetteville, only one juvenile was arrested for attempted murder, and that an imposed youth curfew would not have deterred any of them.
Mario B was the voice of reason. In the council’s haste to make it look like they are being responsive to the escalating shooting issues, they have failed to consider Fayetteville’s history of rejecting youth curfews in the city for many reasons, especially the negative impact additional community surveillance would have on restricting civil liberties. Ironically, Colvin wants Fayetteville’s curfew ordinance to be modeled after that of Charlotte-Mecklenburg's curfew ordinance. Really? It makes you wonder who at City Hall vetted that program?
Most likely, it was the same people who hired contractor Muhammad Muhammad to build the Fayetteville City Parks & Rec Tennis Complex, and the sidewalks on Rosehill Rd... or the construction company that built the new Fire Station on Bragg Blvd. I don’t mean to be facetious, but it doesn’t take that much to be diligent and prudent when it comes to making decisions that impact the entire community. To my point, Charlotte’s curfew ordinance was adopted in 2011 and is extremely complex and begs the question of how to implement proper and effective enforcement. Even more importantly, is the fact that after 14 years, Charlotte officials readily admit they have no data or concrete evidence that can support the curfew ordinance had any effect on reducing crime. However, the cost of implementing the program is readily available.
Curfew ordinances cannot take the place of parental responsibilities. Parents and adult guardians are responsible for protecting young people from victimization and exposure to criminal activity. Ordinances should promote the safety and welfare of all citizens without violating or restricting their rights or freedoms. Curfews do not reduce crime, and there is little evidence that curfews are even effective in addressing the root causes of juvenile crime. Using the city of Charlotte as a model may be convenient, but I doubt it is prudent. Data available and collected in 2025 indicated that Charlotte has a higher average rate of both violent and property crimes compared to other cities in North Carolina. (Google it.)
City Councilman Mario B’s insights are logical and well thought out. He brings a much-needed thread of common sense, logic, and caution to the consideration of using youth curfews as a means to curb Fayetteville shootings, crime, and overall gun violence.
I’ll conclude by saying the Fayetteville community would benefit greatly if our elected officials handled serious municipal challenges with less pompous grandstanding and emotional knee jerk reactions, and spent more time listening to more concerned citizens. Youth advocate Tony Brown, Fayetteville resident Justin Herbe, and Bishop McNeil, a respected and active Fayetteville community organizer who understands that reducing crime and addressing public safety in Fayetteville cannot come from restricting a young person’s civil liberties or implementing proven failed measures like youth curfews.
Like Bishop McNeil, we feel Fayetteville’s elected officials should direct their attention, money, and efforts to projects and programs that have the potential to eliminate violence and crime, like treating mental illness, affordable housing and job training, and opportunities. Listen to Mario B. Curfews don’t work!
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Fayetteville NEXT Advisory Commission hosts its annual Business Summit on Thursday, May 8 at Fayetteville Technical Community College’s Horace Sisk Gymnasium, 2114 Hull Road, from 8 a.m. to 3 p.m. This event is the perfect opportunity for area business owners and professionals, entrepreneurs, and business leaders. The summit will focus on “career development, business innovation, and economic opportunities.” Attendees will be able to network, learn from a panel of industry experts, and ask questions to gain new insights on growing and maintaining their own business. Attendees will “gain insights and advice from
industry leaders and entrepreneurs, network with professionals, business owners, and like-minded peers, enjoy a catered networking lunch provided by a Next Gen Summit alum, and discover career and business opportunities in various fields, and learn about emerging business trends and strategies for success.” Event registration starts at 8 a.m., and the event starts promptly at 9:15 a.m.
Business Summit Itinerary
9:15 a.m.- 11 a.m. How Did You Get That Career?
This panel consists of professionals from several different industries. They will discuss how they came to hold their positions, the barriers they faced, and how they excel. Attendees will have the opportunity to ask the panelists questions and gain more insight. Hosted by City Councilman and community leader, Malik Davis, and local business owner Sylvia Glanton.
Featured Panelist:
David Scott – Communications Manager for the City of Fayetteville & Social Media Instructor at
FTCC
Jonelle McLeod – Marketing and communications specialist
Anna Meyer – Executive Director, Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra
Chaka Jordan – Marketing and Communications professional at Cape Fear Valley Health
Gabriel Evans – Manager of Ticket Operations, Fayetteville Woodpeckers
Kendra Hancock – Professor at Fayetteville State University
Dymond Spain – Professor and Attorney at FTCC
11 a.m.- Noon Munch & Mingle
Everyone loves to eat, and this portion of the summit is just for that. Attendees will be treated to a catered lunch by the local food activist and founder of Er’body Eatz, J’Kwan Fulmore.
Noon to 2:30 p.m. Next Gen Entrepreneur and Innovation Panel
This panel will “explore the intersection of entrepreneurship and innovation.” Attendees will hear the stories of successful entrepreneurs, including their strategy, funding, and barriers they’ve faced.
Featured Panelist:
Brad Crawford – National sports journalist with CBS Sports
Denise Woodard – Founder and CEO of Partake Foods, a nationally recognized brand offering
allergy-friendly snacks, and the first Black woman to raise $1 million for a packaged food startup

Grant Bennett – Visionary social impact strategist and community builder at Google, spearheading partnerships and creative production for Google’s LEAD Events & Experiences. Founder of The Two-Six Project, a nonprofit dedicated to empowering marginalized youth in Fayetteville, NC. His work spans collaborations with the NBA, NFL, HBO Max, and Adobe AMPED, earning recognition from Forbes and President Bill Clinton.
Kwame Molden – Founder and CEO of Springbreak Watches, a lifestyle watch brand dedicated to inspiring people to enjoy the present moment
Christina Pacheco – Startup leader specializing in AI-driven solutions for Amazon, helping develop and support innovative AI-driven startups
Candice Kirtz – Director of Supply Chain at PWC, overseeing strategic sourcing and supplier diversity initiatives
Derrick McArthur – Economic and development professional for the City of Fayetteville Fayetteville NEXT Advisory Commission has worked diligently to bring the community this free event. Registration can be done online at https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeRQdQsc65Gl1eEmDv3M-hRTZpGp8uYh7ofnIsY9i7DdJ7iYA/viewform.

In February, I wrote a column on Rob Christensen’s book about the Raleigh News and Observer, “Southern News, Southern Politics: How a Newspaper Defined a State for a Century.” I concentrated on Josephus Daniels, the paper’s founder and long-time owner.
Rob Christensen had tackled the difficult job of explaining how Daniels could be known as both a progressive and a racist while also a newspaper owner and editor.
Christensen then covered how Daniels’ son Jonathan and other members of the family built the N&O into one of the country’s most successful newspapers until changing times and the loss of large advertising revenues doomed it. During World War II and afterwards, Jonathan served directly under presidents Roosevelt and Truman. After the war’s ending he returned to run the paper and supported UNC former president Frank Porter Graham’s 1950 losing U.S. Senate campaign and Kerr Scott’s successful 1954 Senate race.
Christensen writes, “the defeat of Graham, the South's most visible liberal, marked the end of the era. For the rest of the 1950s, Jonathan and the paper fought a rear-guard action against a rising segregationist tide in the South.”
Both Daniels were successful book authors. Josephus (nine books) and Jonathan (twenty-one).
Jonathan’s brother, Frank Sr. “lacked his brother Jonathan's flamboyance, national profile, and politics. What he had was a capacity to run a growing business, an even temperament, and enough self-confidence that he could defer to Jonathan's large ego—although Jonathan never published his own name in the paper's masthead.
His son, Frank Jr., was, according to one of the paper’s editors, “one of the 15 people who owned and ran the state. It was a role that Josephus or Jonathan could have also claimed.”
In 1968, Claude Sitton succeeded Jonathan and became the first and only non-family member to edit the paper during the Daniels era.
Sitton led a hard-charging group of reporters and won the 1983 Pulitzer Prize for his columns.
Christensen writes, “Sitton attempted to make the paper more professional and less partisan, but for Republicans, it seemed like a barely discernible evolution. The paper did not endorse its first Republican candidate—a GOP judge candidate—until 1988.”
According to Christensen, “As the Sitton era neared an end in 1989, the paper underwent a period of introspection about its future.”
Following the recommendations was painful. The Daniels’ afternoon paper, The Raleigh Times, closure saved the company $850,291 (or $2.1 million in 2024 dollars). The withdrawal from much of rural eastern North Carolina was especially traumatic.
Summing up his story, Christensen writes, “Until it was purchased by a California chain in 1995, the News and Observer was dominated by the Daniels family. They not only were proprietors but also edited the paper for most of the 101 years they owned it, setting the editorial direction of the paper. There were few papers in the country where one family played such an all-encompassing, ink-stained role.
In 1996 a group including Frank Jr., Frank III, and his cousin David Woronoff purchased The Pilot, a community newspaper in Southern Pines that the owners have transformed into a valuable enterprise with a bookstore, business news publication, and other ventures.
Frank Jr. died June 30, 2022, full of pride for his family’s continuing service to North Carolina.

A major portion of the North American population is comprised of people who are actively serving in the Armed Forces or those who once did. USAFacts reports the military included 2,079,142 military personnel and 778,539 civilians as of September 2023. In 2023, the U.S. Census Bureau estimated there were 15.8 million veterans in the U.S. In Canada, the 2021 Census of Population found that 97,625 Canadians were serving in the Canadian Armed Forces while 461,240 Canadians were characterized as veterans.
Military men and women work tirelessly and selflessly to defend their countries' ideals and freedoms. Too often military members do not get the attention and acclaim they deserve. The month of May, which celebrates Military Appreciation Month as well as Memorial Day, is a perfect time of year to honor those who have served in various ways.
• Improve the community. Veterans want the communities they call home to be the best they can be, and that can be achieved by community members pitching in to improve their towns and cities. Doing something honorable, like establishing a park in honor of veterans, can be a great way to improve a community and honor service personnel at the same time.
• Support veteran-friendly policies. By supporting policies and organizations that prioritize veterans' rights, individuals are showing veterans they care. Policies that ensure veterans have access to services they need warrant everyone's support.
• Donate to a nonprofit that supports veterans. Many charities do important work to bridge the gap in care or services needed by veterans or active military members. Using hard-earned dollars to fund these nonprofits is money well spent.
• Ask a veteran to be a keynote speaker. Schools or businesses can ask military members to come in and speak to groups about their experiences. Newspapers and other local publications can write about veterans and share their stories.
• Pay respects to the country. A simple way to honor veterans is to embrace and showcase national pride. Flying the country's flag in front of homes and businesses is a first step. Attending patriotic events, such as parades and memorials, also is a way to honor veterans and others.
• Keep cemeteries clean. Respect the hallowed land that is the final resting place for veterans by volunteering to tidy up around headstones and other markers. On key calendar dates, such as Memorial Day, help with the placement of flags on every veteran's grave as a token of thanks for their sacrifice.
• Volunteer at a VA hospital. Now more than ever VA hospitals may be short-staffed and have need of more volunteers to help with various services. Volunteer work can include visiting patients or running recreational activities, both of which can boost the spirits of veterans receiving care.
Honoring veterans and other military personnel doesn't have to be difficult. Beyond a simple "thank you," there are many steps people can take to show their gratitude to active military personnel and veterans.

A Unit Ministry Team, assigned to the 82nd Airborne Division, share a moment before starting the stress shoot as part of the Best Unit Ministry Team competition held at Fort Bragg, April 24, 2025. U.S. Army photo by Sgt. Jose Segarra) 

Fayetteville Technical Community College presented the 11th annual FTCC ARTSWORKS 2025 Exhibit on March 21. The show runs until May 9 at the Paul H. Thompson Library, 2221 Hull Road, Fayetteville. The exhibit is in the lobby area. The artwork is available for viewing Monday to Thursday, 7 a.m. to 7 p.m., and Fridays, 7 a.m. to 5 p.m. The event is free and open to the public. For more information, contact morrillk@faytechcc.edu.
The Exhibit features artwork of the Fayetteville Technical Community College staff, faculty, and students. An Artist Reception and Artist Awards Ceremony was held on May 1 at the Paul H Thompson Library.
The FTCC ARTWORKS 2025 exhibit highlights the following artists FTCC staff, faculty, and students: Angela Newsome, Rory Carr, Christine Wilson, Katey Morrill, Abigail Gilbert, Karena Kimble, Lamar L. Daniels, October Lurty, Lydia Laffert, Jazmine Legall, Richard A. Long, Wanda Mason, Stephanie Meadows, Greg Hawks, Sandy Jung, Justic MacGarner, Jesse Kiker, Jamie A. Little, Dexter Morrill, Sage Junior, Josef Schell, Dr. Munoz, Trinity Serrano, Sterling L. Ash, Tim Byrant, Sophia Demetri, Sage Gordon, Sarah Kistner, Kevin Elmore, Maryam Abdul Reizak, Christina Tarbush, Ivey Norton, Emily Gardner, Aleida Veliz, Nathaniel Abraham, Jessica Sills, Abir Mohsen, and Jennifer Humble.
Noteworthy art pieces among the talented array of creative and talented works are Katey Morrill, Sticks and Reeds; Rory Carr, Nontraditional Summer Storm; Angela Newsome, Eye, Starry Cretaceous Night; Abigail Gilbert, Foolishly Sentimental; Lamar L. Daniels, Stairway to Salvation; Jennifer Humble, Hosh; and Justice MacGarner, Everyday Tools.
Katharine Morrill, a fine arts instructor at FTCC, shares her passion for the FTCC ARTWORKS 2025. “The Art Gallery at the library is excited to highlight FTTC ARTWORKS2025, a juried group exhibition that celebrates vibrant creativity and artistic talent found across Fayetteville Technical Community College. The 11th annual showcase highlights the hard work, critical thinking, and innovation of our students, faculty, and staff, reflecting diverse voices and visions within our college community. This year, we are especially excited to present a wide variety of artistic making-from painting, and digital design to welding to textiles-highlighting the tangible and conceptual range of skill and imagination within our campus,” she said.
“As we honor the dedication of our artists, we also celebrate the strength and growth of our creative community-one that continues to inspire and evolve year after year. We warmly invite the broader community to join us in celebrating our artists and to be a part of the exciting momentum we are building together.”

(Photo: Starry Cretaceous Night, by Christine Wilson, is one of the many pieces on display at FTCC ARTWORKS. Photo by Lena Simmons)

Rock’n On The River concert series officially kicks off its highly anticipated summer season on May 16. This exciting event, running since 2018, has become a staple for music lovers, thanks to the generous sponsorship of Healy Wholesale. The series promises an evening filled with energetic performances and great vibes, setting the perfect tone for an unforgettable summer.
Located at Campbellton Landing at Deep Creek Outfitters, 1122 Person St, the event offers not just fantastic music but also a beautiful riverside setting. Attendees are encouraged to bring their own chairs or blankets to fully enjoy the concert experience.
Reflections II Band takes the stage at 6 p.m., offering a rich and diverse musical journey that spans multiple genres. Originally started as an all-family band in 1980 under the name 'The Reflections,' the band has evolved over the years but continues to deliver a versatile performance.
The band members, Mike Donald (Keyboards, bass, lead vocals, background vocals), Paul Tyler (guitar, lead vocals, background vocals), and Dan Magid (Drums, vocals) bring a wealth of talent and experience to the stage. Their favorite saying, 'We play everything from Funk to Junk,' perfectly encapsulates their eclectic style and broad appeal.
At 8 p.m., prepare to be blown away by Mostley Crue, the ultimate tribute to Motley Crue. Formed in 2007 in Raleigh, Mostley Crue has earned a reputation for their electrifying and authentic performances. Fronted by Gabriel Pettit, who is renowned for his uncanny ability to mimic Vince Neil’s range, tone, and stage presence, the band delivers a high-energy show that captures the essence of Motley Crue.
The lineup is completed by Darius Rose as Tommy Lee, Kevin Dollar as Mick Mars, and Dustin Eldreth as Nikki Sixx. With their searing raw energy and powerful delivery, Mostley Crue not only sounds like the real deal but also incorporates the look and style of both past and present Motley Crue, making for an unforgettable experience.
While the concert itself is free, there is a $10 fee for parking, so come prepared. Please note that outside coolers or containers are not allowed, but food and drinks will be available for purchase onsite.
To make the most of the evening, bring a chair or blanket to sit on and enjoy the music comfortably. With a lineup featuring both Reflections II and Mostley Crue, concert goers are in for a night of diverse and exciting performances.
One of the highlights of Rock'n On The River is its commitment to giving back to the community. Half of the beer proceeds from the event will be donated to the Karen Chandler Trust Cancer Charity. This organization provides crucial support to cancer patients and their families, making your evening of entertainment also a contribution to a worthy cause.
Rock’n on the River 2025 Events Schedule
Be sure not to miss the rest of the live music line-up
• Friday, June 20 at 6 p.m.
TCB, a R&B and Motown band, will take the stage at 6 p.m., followed by Women & Children, a Van Halen cover band, at 8 p.m.
https://www.facebook.com/events/3922931511280895
• Friday, June 18 at 6 p.m.
Autumn Tyde, a rock and R&B band, will perform at 6 p.m., followed by hometown favorites Rivermist.
https://www.facebook.com/events/2096752277418877
• Friday, August 15 at 6 p.m.
Country band, Dalton Davis Band, will perform at 6 p.m., followed by the ZZ Top cover band, ZZ Top Notch, at 8 p.m.
https://www.facebook.com/events/1130098475281923
• Friday, September 19 at 6 p.m.
Local Favorite rock band, Fear State, will take the stage at 6 p.m., followed at 8 p.m. by Heart Breaker, a Heart and Led Zeppelin cover band.
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The Friends of Skateparks Foundation has partnered with Port City Reggae Concert and Promotion to present the One People Reggae and Arts Festival at Hope Mills Municipal Park, 5766 Rockfish Road, on May 31. The event starts at 2 p.m. and goes until 11 p.m. The performers are Everton Blender, the Bad Boys of Reggae Inner Circle, Shuga, Edge, Michael, DHIM, Crucial Fiya, RA DEAL, DROPA DON, Determine, and DJ Dimenton . Inner Circle is associated with the theme song of the Bad Boys franchise. Blender music is associated with cultural anthems such as “Lift your head” and “Blend Dem.” The lawn seats are $37. The Front of Stage -Own Bar tickets are $50. The event will feature vendors, beer, wine and food trucks. Ticket information is available at https://www.onepeoplereggaefestival.com/. The proceeds of this concert will support the creation of a state-of-the-art skatepark in Hope Mills.
Sponsors include The Arts Council of Fayetteville/Cumberland County, City of Hope Mills, Necknotz, Nature’s Herbal Cabinet, Q98, Healy Wholesale, Tilly, Magic 106.9, Sakara Holistic Center, Rock 103.5, Honest Air, Yellow Crayons, Da Ville Skate Shop, and Endo Stores.
The Friends of Skatepark Foundation was established in 2013 to help communities in the Carolinas develop the best skateparks, with the purpose of having a positive impact on the community. The mission is to promote skateboarding, increase participation, enhance the quality of skateboard parks and educate.
“Quality public skateparks can improve the quality of life of a community by providing alternatives for at-risk youth to focus their energy away from violence, property damage, drug use, and crime,” according to the Friends of Skateparks Foundation.
“Skateboarding and music are two of my biggest passions in life. I started skateboarding in 1978 at the age of seven, when I lived in Hope Mills,” said Terry Grimble, founder of the Friends of Skateparks Foundation and festival organizer. “Skateboarding is not only a sport, but also an art form, lifestyle and culture. Reggae music is a part of the skateboarding culture. I started my first skateboard project in 1989 in Fayetteville. I started producing live music shows to raise money for that project. Bringing a new and exciting reggae to Hope Mills is a dream come true for me. We do not have an ocean to surf, nor a mountain to ride but through skateboard building we can create our own lifestyle inclusive of music.”
Skateboarding has multiple benefits. Skating can provide a stress reliever and a social connection. It’s an affordable hobby and cardio workout. It helps create enhanced coordination, teaches a person how to fall safely and improves patience.
Come support a skatepark in Hope Mills by attending the One People Reggae & Arts Festival in Hope Mills Municipal Park on May 31 from 2 p.m. to 11 p.m.

Swap and Shop events are more than just gatherings; they are powerful platforms for fostering community, sustainability, and economic empowerment. By bringing together like-minded individuals, these events facilitate the exchange of goods in a way that reduces waste and promotes a circular economy. Instead of letting unused items clutter space or end up in landfills, they will get a second life.
These events create a sense of community, as participants connect over shared values and interests. The interactions that occur at Swap and Shop events can lead to lasting relationships and a stronger local network. It's an opportunity to engage in meaningful conversations about sustainability, fashion, and the importance of supporting local businesses.
Participating in a Swap and Shop event is simple and rewarding. First, gather clothing or wardrobe items that are no longer worn but still in good condition. These could be clothes, accessories, or even shoes that someone else might find joy in. For the upcoming event hosted by Saucha Living and Room2Tailor, bringing 5 or more items will reduce the entry fee from $30 to $20.
Once the items have been selected, head to the event location—Blissful Alchemists at 414 Ray Ave—on May 10 at 2 p.m. Tickets not only grant access to the event but also include a drink voucher for a delicious, alcohol-free beverage from the Sober Bartender.
Enjoy a day of swapping, shopping, and connecting with other women who share a passion for sustainable living.
Pre-registration is required for this event. To register and purchase tickets, visit https://tinyurl.com/3hyxvc96. Tickets are limited.

Swap Rules
1. No Grumpy-Gretchens or Selfish-Susan’s will be tolerated.
2. Bring a shopping bag & hangers for donation items, as needed.
3. No swapping of items until the Hosts give the announcement.
4. Guests may only have 5 items in hand during the group’s first 15-minute swap.
5. Hosts will announce when Final Swap begins.
At this time, attendees can hoard as much as their bags and hands can hold.
6. Put anything in the “Safe Zone” you don’t want taken. All clothing not on your body or in your shopping bag(s) will be considered fair game!
7. Any disagreements will be decided by a coin toss facilitated by event hosts
8. No messy food/drinks near the clothing.
9. Introduce yourself to someone new and have fun.

Swap & Shop Agenda
2 p.m. to 2:45 p.m.: Welcome- Check in at the table to receive the swap rules, full itinerary, and drink ticket. Guests will have time to stage donated items (self-guided), browse the event, and enjoy mingling with others. Clear signage and a map will guide attendees to where to place their donations. Drink tickets will be good for one mocktail from The Sober Bartender.
2:45 p.m. to 3:45 p.m.: Group Swapping – To ensure a fair and enjoyable experience for all, swapping during this time will be in groups. Groups will be called in order, allowing everyone a fair chance to explore and choose new treasures.
4 p.m. to 5 p.m.: Final Time, Swap Away- Select as many items as your heart desires. Items that are not spoken for will be donated to Fayetteville Urban Ministries.

Embracing Sustainable Fashion
Sustainable fashion is about making mindful choices that consider the environmental and social impacts of our clothing. Participation in a Swap and Shop event means embracing a more sustainable approach to fashion. Swapping clothes extends the life cycle of garments, reducing the need for new production and minimizing waste.
In addition to swapping, consider the materials and manufacturing processes behind the clothes.
Opt for items made from eco-friendly materials or those produced by ethical brands. Contribute to a more sustainable fashion industry and set an example for others to follow by making these choices.

Making an Impact: Supporting HEAL and Fayetteville Urban Ministry
The Swap and Shop event provides an opportunity to support important causes. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit HEAL, a nonprofit organization dedicated to holistic recovery and wellness. HEAL offers prevention services and support for individuals and families affected by substance use, trauma, mental health challenges and military-related PTSD.
Additionally, any unclaimed swap items will be donated to Fayetteville Urban Ministry, an organization committed to serving the local community through various programs and services. Participation in this event means embracing sustainable fashion and contributing to the well-being of the community. Together, we can make a meaningful impact.

Are there any True Crime fans out there? Do you know about the Eastburn family murders of 1985? Or the 1970 murder of the family of Jeffrey MacDonald? What about what Ann Simpson did to her husband in 1850? Sign up for the Fayetteville True Crime Tour to learn about these stories and more.
The Fayetteville True Crime Tour is an intriguing venture by Triangle Walking Tours, an organization based in Durham. Triangle Walking Tours was founded with the mission to share the fascinating history of North Carolina with enthusiasts of all kinds. Despite the Piedmont region of North Carolina often being overlooked as a historical treasure trove, Triangle Walking Tours aims to challenge this perception.
Their Fayetteville True Crime Tour is a unique offering that explores the darker aspects of the city's history. The tour was created to shed light on the often-overlooked stories of crime and intrigue that have shaped Fayetteville through the years.
The next available tour is Saturday, May 10 at 4 p.m. Each tour runs for an hour and is priced at $15 per individual. To see all the dates the tour is running and to purchase tickets, visit: https://tinyurl.com/mrx3zxcs
One of the most fascinating aspects of the Fayetteville True Crime Tour is its focus on notorious poisonings and dark conspiracies. These tales delve into the grim history of secret plots and lethal deceptions that have left an indelible mark on the city.
Participants will hear about infamous cases of poisoning that baffled authorities and terrified the community, revealing the lengths some individuals would go to achieve their sinister goals.
The tour also covers some of the most shocking prison breaks and daring escapes in Fayetteville's history. These stories highlight the audacity and cunning of individuals who managed to outwit the authorities and escape from confinement.
Visitors will learn about the dramatic events that unfolded during these escapes and the subsequent manhunts that gripped the community, showcasing the relentless pursuit of justice in the face of adversity.
No true crime tour would be complete without delving into the infamous murders that have left a lasting impact on Fayetteville. From familial murders that tore families apart to serial killings that sent shockwaves through the community, these stories are both chilling and thought-provoking.
The tour provides an in-depth look at the circumstances surrounding these crimes, the investigations that followed, and the lasting legacy they have left on the city. The tour group will meet up at Winterbloom Tea, located in Downtown Fayetteville at 238 Hay Street.
The Fayetteville True Crime Tour offers a unique opportunity to explore the darker side of the city's history in a way that is both educational and engaging. For true crime enthusiasts and history buffs alike, this tour provides a fascinating glimpse into the events that have shaped Fayetteville over the years.

On Armed Forces Day, May 17, the veteran community in Harnett County will gather for a special cause at Static Line Brewing Company, a veteran-owned and operated craft brewery located at 1671 Buffalo Lake Road, Sanford. The event—an Overland-Themed Car Show Fundraiser—is a collaboration between Static Line and Mind Over Land, a North Carolina-based 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to reconnecting veterans with the outdoors through vehicle-based adventures.
The fundraiser, which runs from 1 p.m. to 4 p.m., will showcase a wide range of off-road vehicles: Jeeps, Toyotas, overland rigs, and trucks—each a testament to freedom, grit, and individuality. Participants can register their vehicles for a $10 entry fee, while attendees can vote for their favorite rig for just $2 per ticket. In addition to the car show, there will be a raffle featuring an overland fridge generously donated by a supporting company from Asheville, with all proceeds going directly to support veteran outdoor excursions.
“We wanted to hold this event on Armed Forces Day as a way to honor those who serve, have served, and continue to serve,” said retired Chief Petty Officer Chad Bruner, one of the co-founders of Mind Over Land. “Everything we raise goes back into our mission. We’re 100% donation-funded, and we don’t charge veterans to participate in our events.”
Mind Over Land is led by three retired military leaders: Chief Warrant Officer 4 Seth Smith, Chief Master Sgt. Jonathan Shores and Bruner. Each brings years of service experience and a shared passion for healing through nature and camaraderie. Their nonprofit was born from a desire to streamline services and focus on one core mission—connecting veterans with each other and the outdoors.
“An earlier group tried to do too many things for too many people,” Bruner explained, referring to a previous initiative called True Patriot Inc. “We decided we were going to do one thing really well—facilitating overland-style vehicle adventures where veterans can disconnect from daily stress and reconnect with nature, purpose, and each other.”
Mind Over Land’s programs are immersive and comprehensive. Veterans are not asked to pay out of pocket. The organization provides everything: transportation, food, fuel, gear, and campground fees. They even waive the $50 registration hold fee if a veteran is experiencing hardship.
“We had to turn away over 100 veterans last year,” Bruner said. “Not because we didn’t want them, but because we didn’t have the funding to make the trips possible. That’s why fundraisers like this one with Static Line are so important.”
Static Line Brewing Company, owned by Steven Khoo, a veteran himself, serves more than just award-winning craft beer—it provides a gathering place for veterans and civilians alike to share stories, support one another, and foster community. Khoo, whose brewery website is www.staticlinebeer.com, has long been a supporter of local veteran initiatives.
“The veteran community is very self-supportive,” Bruner said. “We all understand each other. Businesses like Static Line get what we’re trying to do, and they step up. Steven Khoo offered us his parking lot and brewery space for this event because he understands the mission—it’s about more than beer. It’s about belonging.”
This Armed Forces Day event isn’t just a one-off; Mind Over Land hopes it marks the beginning of a new tradition.
“If we get enough support this year, we’d love to make this an annual event,” Bruner said. “And maybe even expand to different areas.”
Looking ahead, Mind Over Land has set an ambitious but inspiring goal: to impact 10,000 veterans in 10 years. With increasing demand for their services and a proven model of healing through outdoor connection, they’re confident, but they need the public’s support to get there.
“Our biggest limitation is funding,” Bruner stated plainly. “We’re not asking for a handout. We’re asking people to partner with us in making a real difference. Come out to the event, register your vehicle, vote, buy a raffle ticket, or just enjoy a cold beer. Every action helps a veteran.”
The Overland-Themed Car Show Fundraiser is more than a display of rugged vehicles—it’s a symbol of resilience, camaraderie, and the road to healing. With beer in hand, engines humming, and veterans at the center, May 17 promises to be a meaningful day for all who attend.
For more information about the event or how to get involved, visit www.staticlinebeer.com or follow Mind Over Land on social media.

(Photos courtesy of Mind Over Land's Facebook page)

High energy hits the stage with the arrival of the 9th Annual Fayetteville’s Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown to the Crown Complex on May 17. The battle for Best Lip Syncer—in youth and adult categories—benefits the Child Advocacy Center and reigns as one of the All-America City’s most entertaining shows. Presented by Fayetteville Academy, the 2025 Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown’s lights-music-action energy is a can’t-miss.
The creative Lip Sync Showdown is the CAC's spring major fundraiser and signature event. Since 2017, the fun promotion has raised money and awareness for the Center, a 501 (c) (3) charitable organization with a multi-disciplinary approach to caring for abused children. By attending and supporting the Showdown, sponsors, show participants and eventgoers become community partners with the CAC in its mission to respond to and prevent child abuse. Event proceeds help provide healing and hope to the over 700 child abuse victims with whom CAC volunteers and staff work.
For the second year, Fayetteville’s Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown presents two performances in the Crown Center Ballroom. The youth matinee at 1 p.m. includes groups with one or more performers under 18. With recommended dress of casual to cocktail, the ticket price is $25 plus taxes and fees if purchased online. The 7 p.m. evening features adult-only performers ages 18+. Evening showgoers will enjoy a catered meal with dessert options and a cash bar; cocktail dress is suggested. The nighttime show ticket is $75 plus taxes and fees if purchased online. View all seating and pricing options here https://www.crowncomplexnc.com/events/detail/fayettevilles-ultimate-lip-sync-showdown-3
Tickets can also be purchased in person at the Crown Box Office, located at 1960 Coliseum Dr.
A live DJ, show emcees, professional audio, custom stage lighting and a 3D photo booth keep the party pumping, both day and night. Table pompoms and hand-clappers, raffle tickets, an interactive dessert station and People’s Choice cash-donation ballot vases create audience interaction opportunities before, after and between the clapping, cheering, laughing and fever-pitch crowd responses the show always elicits. The Lip Sync performers may not have cut a record or signed a contract, but their Fayetteville fans follow them just the same.
Returning in 2025 are the 2024 winners: youth ensemble, The Miracles, comprised of local young actors with Cape Fear Regional Theatre ties, and the adult group formerly known as The Six Merry Murderesses, led by Casey Benander of Haymount Homes. High school theater department members from E.E. Smith, Terry Sanford, Fayetteville Academy, homeschools and other K-12 groups are on the lineup for the matinee. Adult Lip Syncers include groups from Womack Army Hospital, Keller Williams Real Estate, the office of Spring Lake Mayor Kia Anthony and Dancing Without Sin studio owner Stephanie Brown Kegler as “Tina Turner,” among numerous others. From musical theater selections, The Lion King, The Addams Family Musical, Legally Blonde, Newsies, Grease and Pitch Perfect, to hits and hipsters from the past, Ultimate Lip Sync competitors, past and present, are in it to win it! A $500 cash prize will be given to the winner of each show; performing acts are judged on the criteria of lip sync ability, stage presence, choreography, costumes, crowd appeal and preshow fundraising.
According to Event Chair Karen B. Tisdale, over 100 performers have signed up to participate in the 2025 competition, which is expected to be better than ever despite changing months from April to May.
“We've become more of an established event, and we're getting groups that are putting more effort into their performances, more choreography,” she said. “Last year was the first time we split and did two shows. So, continuing in that vein allows more performance groups to come in. The more developed the event, the bigger and better it gets.”
“It's my favorite event all year,” Tisdale continued enthusiastically. “It's so fun. It's fun to sit in the audience and watch. It's fun to be on stage. It's fun to be backstage.”
The Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown has raised upward of $30-$40K for the CAC each year.
“We hope to raise $50K this year,” Tisdale shared. “It's such a fun, high-energy event. It's just fantastic.”
Pre-fundraising among the participating groups contributes to the overall goal and is another way for the entrants to showcase creativity. From raffling tickets and washing cars to selling lemonade and hosting donation dance classes, the designated proceeds “go to the CAC for its mission,” Tisdale said. “We have adult groups that do Facebook and online social media fundraisers that bring in quite a bit for the CAC.”
Hired as the CAC Executive Director in June 2024, John Webster is excited to experience his first Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown with the agency this year. Expressing gratitude for the event’s legacy, he said, “As the Executive Director of the Child Advocacy Center and as a representative of the CAC staff and its Board of Directors, but more importantly, on behalf of the children we serve, I would like to thank everyone who has supported Fayetteville's Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown in the past. I encourage corporate and individual sponsors and supporters to come out again and support this super fun fundraiser benefiting the work of the CAC. Karen Tisdale and her amazing planning committee work tirelessly to make this event bigger and better each year, so I know this year's event will be lots of fun for all who attend! The work of the CAC is vital to Fayetteville and the entire county as we strive to be a place of healing and hope for child victims of abuse by offering forensic interviews and counseling for victims as well as providing prevention education for parents, professionals and agencies in our community. Please plan to purchase tickets and come out for a great time while benefiting the children we serve.”
Unleash your inner rockstar and join in this year’s event. Don't miss the chance to win big and earn bragging rights as the Fayetteville Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown Champion. Sign up now or buy your ticket to attend. Stardom awaits!

(Photo: The Six Merry Murderesses pose for a photo after the Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown in 2024)

Fayetteville has taken a bold step toward sustainability with the launch of its first battery electric buses, marking a major milestone in the city’s long-term commitment to clean energy and environmentally responsible public transportation.
On April 10, city leaders, transportation staff, and community members gathered for a ribbon-cutting ceremony at the Transit and Solid Waste Administrative Building on Grove Street to celebrate the official rollout of two electric buses and the installation of three new electric vehicle charging stations. The event highlighted Fayetteville’s investment in sustainable transit and its ongoing efforts to reduce greenhouse gas emissions.
This initial rollout is part of the Fayetteville Area System of Transit’s Zero Emission Bus Deployment Project—an initiative designed to modernize the city’s public transportation infrastructure while improving air quality, lowering noise pollution, and promoting long-term environmental stewardship. The two BEBs are set to begin service in May, bringing a new level of comfort and sustainability to Fayetteville’s riders.
Each 40-foot electric bus, valued at approximately $1.2 million, offers a smoother and quieter ride compared to traditional diesel buses. Passengers will also benefit from onboard USB charging ports for mobile devices, helping to create a more convenient and commuter-friendly experience.
“This project reflects our commitment to innovation, sustainability, and creating a healthier environment for our residents,” said Tyffany Neal, Fayetteville’s Director of Public Services, in an official media release issued by the City of Fayetteville. “By reducing emissions and improving air quality, these buses mark a significant leap forward in how we serve our community.”
The adoption of electric buses represents more than just a technology change—it’s a significant shift in the way Fayetteville envisions its future. In recent years, the city has increasingly prioritized green initiatives, recognizing the critical role local governments play in addressing climate change and building resilient communities. The electric bus rollout serves as a key pillar in that vision.
Along with the arrival of these first two buses, two more BEBs are expected to join the fleet by the end of May, bringing the city’s total to four electric buses in 2025. Fayetteville has also announced plans to acquire four additional electric buses by 2027, signaling a steady expansion of clean transportation infrastructure over the next several years.
The three EV charging stations installed at FAST’s operations center will ensure that the fleet remains charged and operational, laying the groundwork for further development. This infrastructure is not only essential to the success of the current electric bus program but also a long-term investment that will support future electrification efforts across Fayetteville’s transit system.
The environmental benefits of electric buses are considerable. Unlike diesel-powered vehicles, BEBs produce zero tailpipe emissions, contributing to improved air quality and public health, particularly in areas with high traffic congestion. They also significantly reduce noise pollution, making them ideal for urban environments.
Financially, the investment in electric buses is expected to pay off over time. Although the initial cost per vehicle is higher than traditional buses, BEBs generally offer reduced maintenance needs and lower fuel costs throughout their service life. For cities like Fayetteville, this makes the transition both environmentally and economically strategic.
The introduction of electric buses also complements Fayetteville’s broader sustainability efforts. The city is currently developing a Sustainability Action Plan—a comprehensive roadmap to guide Fayetteville toward a low-carbon, climate-resilient future. This plan is built on community-driven solutions and focuses on multiple areas, including energy, transportation, waste reduction, and land use.
One of the central components of the plan is the “transportation and mobility” category, which encourages walking, cycling, public transportation, and the use of low-emission vehicles. The rollout of BEBs fits directly within this framework, representing a real-world application of the city’s sustainability goals.
As Fayetteville continues to expand its electric bus program, the city is positioning itself as a leader in sustainable urban transit. By combining cutting-edge technology with thoughtful planning, Fayetteville is not only modernizing its transportation system but also improving the daily lives of its residents.
The electric bus launch is a visible sign of progress—a reminder that even small shifts in city planning and policy can lead to meaningful change. It also reflects a broader national movement, as municipalities across the United States increasingly turn to electric transportation as a solution to environmental and economic challenges.
Fayetteville’s investment in green infrastructure underscores a growing recognition that a clean, accessible, and efficient transit system is essential to a thriving, future-ready city. With more electric buses on the way and a sustainability plan in motion, the city is paving a path toward cleaner air, quieter streets, and a stronger community.
The road to full electrification is just beginning, but Fayetteville’s first steps are already making a difference. Through strategic vision and a commitment to innovation, the city demonstrates what it means to lead by example toward a more sustainable tomorrow.

(Photo: Fayetteville's new electric buses will begin service around town in May. Two more buses will join the fleet in 2025, with four more planned before 2027. Photo courtesy of City of Fayetteville's Facebook page)

A provision in the North Carolina Senate-approved budget plan could eliminate millions of dollars Fayetteville receives each year for street maintenance and repairs through the Powell Bill.
The Powell Bill provides municipalities with funds to pay for a range of street improvements and repairs, and it has done so since 1951, according to the N.C. Department of Transportation. It provided $185 million to municipalities last year for road maintenance, NCDOT reported.
But this year, cities with a population over 150,000 may not receive any Powell Bill funding, per the state Senate budget. Those cities include Charlotte, Raleigh, Greensboro, Winston-Salem, Fayetteville and Cary.
The City of Fayetteville received about $7 million dollars last year, according to a memo from the city’s manager’s office shared with CityView. The memo states the city’s Powell Bill funds pay for a wide range of public services, including routine street maintenance like repairing potholes, patching roads and sealing cracks; maintenance of traffic signs, speed humps and street markings; and street infrastructure upkeep like sweeping, mowing and debris removal.
In response to the budget cuts, the Fayetteville City Council approved a resolution on April 28 to send to the county’s representatives in the General Assembly advocating for the preservation of the funding. The resolution described the Powell Bill funds as an “essential tool to protect the economic vitality, infrastructure integrity, and public safety of the community.” It urged state lawmakers to keep the funding intact for Fayetteville and other municipalities.
“The City of Fayetteville hereby expresses its strong opposition to the proposed elimination of Powell Bill funding and respectfully urges the North Carolina General Assembly to preserve the critical funding source in the final state budget to ensure municipalities across North Carolina can continue to maintain infrastructure essential to public safety, economic development, and community well-being,” the resolution states.
City officials have emphasized that Fayetteville is the only city with a population above 150,000 located in a Tier 1 county, the most economically-distressed tier among three rankings given to counties by the North Carolina Department of Commerce. This means the city has less tax dollars to pay for things like infrastructure, as compared to the state’s other major cities located in Tier 2 and Tier 3 counties.
“The elimination of Powell Bill funding, as proposed in the draft state budget, would have a direct and significant negative impact on the City’s ability to maintain critical infrastructure,” the memo states. “It would force the City to either defer essential maintenance projects or shift the financial burden to local taxpayers. Powell Bill funds are foundational to the City’s ability to maintain roadway safety, support economic development, and preserve neighborhood quality of life.”
The city said that over the last three years the funds have allowed the resurfacing of approximately 28 miles of city streets, slurry sealing of 14 miles of city streets, and micro-surfacing of 15 miles of city streets. Slurry sealing and microsurfacing are pavement preservation treatments used to extend the life of existing asphalt surfaces.
Altogether, over the past three fiscal years, the city has received about $19 million in Powell Bill funds, the memo states.
The Powell Bill funding also accounts for nearly a third of Fayetteville’s non-revenue-generating Public Services Department budget, the memo said. “Given recent fiscal constraints, reliance on Powell Bill funds for operational expenses has increased,” it states.
The city says it is in need of significant street maintenance in the next two years that it planned to pay for with the Powell Bill funds, including resurfacing about 14 miles of city streets and micro-surfacing approximately 13 miles of city streets. Although most current Powell Bill-funded projects have already been completed or have the necessary money set aside for their completion, it’s unclear yet how the city will pay for the anticipated street maintenance in future years.
“The Powell Bill is the only source currently used for these types of activities with the exception of the portion of the 2022 bonds dedicated for street maintenance,” Marketing and Communications Director Loren Bymer told CityView. “Currently City staff is still in very early stages of determining if any options are available if Powell Bill ends; however, it is important to know that the majority of the projects and funds are completed, in progress or obligated already. As council requested, we are preparing additional information to share on related transportation projects in recent years with the sources of those funds.”
Urgent request
Assistant City Manager Jodi Phelps explained the significance of the funding loss to the city council at a council meeting earlier this week. She said it was crucial to send the resolution now before the North Carolina House votes on the Senate’s proposed budget.
The Senate adopted its budget proposal on April 17. The state House will advance its own proposal this month, after which the two chambers will negotiate a compromise of the budget plans before the start of the fiscal year on July 1.
“We want to make sure we get this in the hands of the members of the General Assembly this week so that we have time,” Phelps said. “We don’t know when the House is going to take up the budget, but we want to make sure we engage in that education and make sure everyone understands the importance of Powell Bill funding for our city and cities that are also our size and larger than us.”
When asked by Council Member Mario Benavente why the Senate had decided to exclude the funding, Phelps said she didn’t know but it may have to do with Hurricane Helene recovery funding. State legislators previously told council members and other local lawmakers at a February meeting that funding needs for Western North Carolina would be a significant focus in the legislature this year.
“I don’t want to speak to what anyone may have thought of in their proposal, but I do understand that in Raleigh there’s conversations about Hurricane Helene support cutting funding [elsewhere], but I’m not sure,” Phelps said. “I’m not the General Assembly, so I don’t want to speak to what was in their mind.”
Mayor Mitch Colvin said funding for street maintenance should be a bipartisan issue.
“This is an issue to me that transcends politics because I think both Republicans and Democrats understand the importance of resources and street paving and those things that make communities better,” Colvin said. “What’s unique about this is if this targets larger urbanized areas. We’re the only one that’s located in a Tier 1 county designation, which has special exceptions for resources. So I think that’s why it’s important today that this is before us.”

“I miss coming down here,” my wife said as we headed to downtown Fayetteville for dinner a few weeks ago. I moved back home last year to East Tennessee and returned to spend a couple of days at her mom’s. For years, we enjoyed Pierro’s Italian Bistro for date night. So, we headed there for dinner.
Fayetteville is a town that constantly churns. Politically, Fayetteville, Cumberland County, and Fort Bragg present a complex and dynamic political environment. It is also a place where families are made and where they break, often setting bad examples for kids.
Fayetteville is a city of Yin and Yang. Fayetteville is known as the “All-America City” and the home of some of the bravest heroes on earth. It is the home of Putt-Putt Golf, Golden Corral, and the first franchised Hardee’s restaurant. On the other hand, it is nationally known as “Fayettenam”, “Fatalburg”, and post 9/11 “Fayettestan”, due to its strong military presence and its reputation for high-profile crimes. I know the locals don’t like that reputation, but Fayetteville and Fort Bragg have inherited those three unflattering monikers over the last half-century.
It was a beautiful evening as we sat outside Pierro’s on the patio enjoying our dinner, as we watched Hay Street turn itself into a two-lane spectacle of mayhem. Trucks, cars, motorcycles, and Sling Shots (those three-wheel cars) paraded up and down the street—some with ear-piercing exhaust pipes and music so loud that it would make your head explode. Motorcycles lined up and did wheelies up and down Hay Street.
I looked at my wife, pointed down the sidewalk to the police station, and said, “If the police just rolled a chair out the front door with a radar gun, they would make thousands of dollars a night, and we could have free parking.”
Downtown Fayetteville should be the nicest place on earth, with as much money as has been put into those few blocks. Since the 1990s, city officials have focused on revitalizing downtown. In the mid-90s, the city acquired Rick’s Lounge. The city leadership believed that businesses like Rick’s Lounge were the reasons for the high crime rate and the seedy reputation of the town.
It is hard to find data on whether Fayetteville is better off now than it was back then. That is because the crime methods have changed, but in the end, it just depends on whether you feel safe living here. Lately, gun violence has been highlighted due to the recent shootings at a Cliffdale Road carnival and Fayetteville’s annual Downtown Dogwood Festival, which was held only a couple of blocks away from the police station.
I admit that homelessness is now an epidemic in America, and it plagues some cities more than others. It is hard to go downtown Fayetteville and not be asked for money by a panhandler. I quickly discovered that it is easier to put a few bucks in my pocket for them when I go downtown. But sometimes, I am unsure if I am telling myself that I am helping my fellow man, or if I’m just giving them money to distract them so they will move on. On the other hand, I would much rather give a homeless person money than pay for parking downtown. Our roads have been built with taxpayers’ dollars, but before paid parking was a thing, it hurt everyone in some form or fashion, which also feels like extortion.
I will tell you that when people lack the courage to insist that Fayetteville police enforce something as simple as local traffic laws outside of their building, the police force is reactive, not proactive.
Eventually, these little criminals mature into big criminals, and victims will only breed criminals or more victims.
As we sat on the patio finishing our meal, my wife said, “I was wrong, I do not miss it here”.
As I write this, a news flash just came in saying the Mayor of Fayetteville is calling for a meeting to discuss the violence and the possibility of a curfew. Well, after 26 homicides since January 1st of this year, Fayetteville leadership weighs in, again, with too little, too late. People need to stand up for their community. If the residents of Fayetteville continue to allow their community leaders and elected officials to endorse policies of LESS law, LESS order, LESS enforcement, and LESS accountability, maybe a more appropriate nickname for Fayetteville should be “FayetteLESS”.

We recently went on a fact-finding trip to New York City. There are millions of stories in the Big Apple. This is one of them. Seeming like a good idea at the time, we took coach seats on the midnight train to New York.
If you live in Fayetteville, you have probably heard the whistle of the 12:59 a.m. Silver Meteor. It delivers you to Penn Station around lunchtime where a swarm of gypsy taxi drivers each strive to take you on a ride and relieve you of a chunk of money.
Groggy from the red-eye train, we let a fast-talking hustler, who claimed to be an Uber driver, grab our luggage and put us in his vehicle. Poor decision. Pro tip: always use the Uber app. If a stranger comes up to you claiming to be an Uber driver, he is not. Sixty dollars later for a $20 trip, I realized my error. Life goes on.
Our hotel was only a block from Times Square. The desk clerk was a gentleman wearing purple-framed glasses with a long beard festooned with purple flowers and silver stars. Quite impressive. Back in the dark ages of the late 60’s, Times Square was a squalid cesspool of dirt, hookers, thieves, girly shows, porno theaters, and greasy spoons. It was pretty cool. Not so in 2025.
Now it is the Disney version of the Las Vegas strip. It is surprisingly clean, packed with gawking tourists, more giant digital signs than you can shake a cataract at, and stores that would fit in any upscale mall in regular America.
There are few homeless folks visible in Times Square, maybe they are staying in tax-paid hotels. The homeless we did see sported homemade cardboard signs showing sparks of humor. One gentleman had a sign that said “Screw you. Pay me.” (Verb modified as this is a family paper). Another had a sign stating, “Need Money for Weed & Women.”
A third had a sign with the humble brag “Need money for penis reduction surgery.” But mostly it was non-English-speaking tourists craning their necks at the adrenaline-inducing flashing signs.
We traveled with our son Will and two friends from Newton Grove. Arising early, I took the subway to Greenwich Village to Caffe Reggio for a cappuccino and a muffin. The Reggio features the first espresso machine to come to America. Massively impressive, the silver machine is the equivalent of the Blue Origin rocket of its time without the benefit of Katy Perry or Gayle King. A visit to Reggio is highly recommended. We visited the Met Art Museum, Museum of Modern Art, and the Frick Museum.
The Met has world class stuff from Monet, Manet, and Van Gogh. The Modern Art Museum demonstrates Andy Warhol’s quote that “Art is what I can get away with.” My favorite item in the MOMA was a large triangle of hairy Swiss cheese. Hair plugs in a dairy product equals high art. A display of different-sized paper bags was equally entrancing.
Seeking even more culture, we went to three plays: Cabaret, Hades Town, and Oh, Mary! Hades Town, based on a story from Greek Mythology, set somewhere between New Orleans and Hell, was the best.
No trip to New York is complete without a visit to McSorely’s Old Ale House, where Abraham Lincoln used to hang out when he was in town. Your choice is either dark or light ale. The mugs are small, but you get two with each order. The subways are much cleaner than I remembered them being a few years ago. No one tried to push us onto the tracks, which I counted as a plus.
We went on the Mafia Walking tour led by Tony, a retired disabled NYC Police narcotics detective who had grown up in Little Italy. Tony had led a colorful life before entering the police department: running numbers as a child for the Gambino family, doing collection work for bookies as an adult, and having only one felony arrest but no conviction before joining the force. He was very open about his past misdeeds, including holding a debtor by his ankles over the edge of a tall building to convince said debtor to pay up. He paid. Tony was a charming sociopath, which is what most sociopaths usually are.
He was a highly entertaining guide, pointing out various locations where the Mafia had killed or maimed people, had their headquarters, and their favorite restaurants. He discussed what it was like to pretend to be a drug dealer buying wholesale amounts of heroin from seriously bad guys. In a word: Dangerous.
Unfortunately, we had to leave the tour before it ended, thus missing out on a free Cannoli.
The Big Apple is bigger than ever, even without King Kong climbing the Empire State Building.
I give it 5 stars. Go see it.

(Illustration by Pitt Dickey)

When conversations turn to what’s happening in Fayetteville and Cumberland County, the topic du jour centers around the proposed $145 million Event Center project percolating since 2014. Fast forward eleven years, and one of the most prolific questions that still needs to be addressed is not whether we need or want the 3,000-seat complex, but rather: Where should it be located?
It’s a topic that stimulates some very interesting and sometimes controversial conversations. Currently, at least at this writing, no decision has been made since the Cumberland County Board of Commissioners is still waiting to review some revised cost estimates and perhaps options that may be more conducive and beneficial to Cumberland County taxpayers.
This is my opinion, because after attending and listening to Board Chairman Kirk deViere, it currently sounds more in line with the board's commitment to prioritize the needs of the entire county and be fiscally responsible to the residents who have placed their trust in them. deViere’s message at the April 29th State of Cumberland County presentation resonated enthusiastically with the audience and throughout Cumberland’s nine municipalities. This commitment was demonstrated in real-time weeks prior when the three newly elected commissioners, local businessman Pavan Patel, commercial real estate professional Henry Tyson, and entrepreneur and former North Carolina Senator Kirk deViere, led the charge to pause the costly event center project. They wanted to vet the process just to be assured that they were moving the project forward in the spirit that was in the best interest of all the resident taxpayers.
This decision that was rightfully applauded by many vocal and concerned Up & Coming Weekly newspaper readers, who are still reeling in frustration, anger and dissatisfaction over the City of Fayetteville’s lack of responsibility when they issued three major construction contracts for the Mabel Smith community center, sidewalks on Rosehill Rd. and the $11.5 M Tennis Center at Mazarick Park to Muhammad Muhammad’s Construction Company, LLC or later known as Apex Contracting Group who received payment from the City then walked off all three projects without completing any of them.
Unfortunately, it gets worse: The two required surety bonding companies that are supposed to protect the customer and ensure the construction projects are completed were BOTH owned by the same contractor, Muhammad Muhammad.
To the dismay and frustration of many Fayetteville residents, no one from the City of Fayetteville, the Mayor, City Manager, City Attorney, or the Director of the Fayetteville Parks & Rec has taken responsibility for such a careless act or has been transparent as to what actions are being taken against Mohammad Mohammad. It’s irresponsible and unexplainable activities like this that have the new Cumberland County Board of Commissioners wanting to make sure everything is in order before they move forward with the project.
deViere’s State of the County Address confirmed and reiterated their commitment to this kind of competency and transparency in their governance. We applaud this active and aggressive style of positive leadership. It resonates with confidence with county residents and builds consensus on the major priorities and concerns facing Cumberland County's future.
Dr. Jeannette Council, whose homegrown wisdom has graced the board for over twenty-five years, and Commissioner Veronica Jones, unanimously voted in as Vice Chair 5 months ago, along with newcomers Pavan Patel and Henry Tyson, all sat smiling attentively and nodding in agreement as the new board chairman listed the emphasized issues and priorities that would lift Cumberland County making it more livable and prosperous for us now and for future generations.
Priorities addressed were: Clean water as a fundamental right; education, as in investing in teachers and new state-of-the-art schools; public safety by providing proper law enforcement resources and equipment, and pursuing a unified 911 Communications Center; health and wellness; economic vitality, with a focus on roads, highways, and infrastructure, the development of small businesses, and housing accessibility.
deViere’s strongest and most endearing topic was the need for community collaboration, and rightfully so. Community collaboration and engagement are essential for achieving long-term goals that impact quality of life. Governments do not, and cannot, build livable communities on their own. They need community partnerships with local elected officials, beginning with transparent communications and trust.
Cumberland County residents are experiencing a more involved, professional, transparent, and empathetic leadership team, injecting intelligence, common sense, and ethical business savvy into the management of Cumberland County. They are in with the new and out with the old ways of thinking and acting on important county issues.
While it was encouraging to see the courtroom full of enthusiastic residents, organizations, businesses, and county employees at the State of the County Address, the conspicuous absence of former chairman Commissioner Glenn Adams and Commissioner Marshall Faircloth cast a shadowy hint of stubborn resistance to the new board’s style of open citizen engagement, transparent government operations, and free and frequent communications with the Cumberland County community.
Yes, I liked this board's tone of optimism and the reaching out for the unity of all parties. deViere’s message was clear and succinct: by community involvement and working together on the priorities they have set, “making the right decisions, for the right reasons” will come naturally, adding to the success of obtaining a strong and bright future for Cumberland County.
The fate of the $145M downtown event center, and where it will eventually be built, will be decided after the proper vetting of the project has been completed. One thing you can count on with this new board of commissioners, whatever is decided, they will own it!
Stay tuned and thank you for reading the Up & Coming Weekly newspaper.

(Photo: Kirk deViere speaks during the State of Cumberland County address on April 30, 2025. Photo courtesy of Cumberland County NC Government Facebook page)

Imagination is more than knowledge -Albert Einstein

Fayetteville Technical Community College presented the 11 th annual FTCC ARTSWORKS 2025 Exhibit on March 21. The show runs until May 9 at the Paul H. Thompson Library, 2221 Hull Road, Fayetteville. The exhibit is in the lobby area. The artwork is available for viewing Monday to Thursday, 7 a.m. to 7 p.m., and Fridays, 7 a.m. to 5 p.m. The event is free and open to the public. For more information, contact morrillk@faytechcc.edu.
The Exhibit features artwork of the Fayetteville Technical Community College staff, faculty, and students. An Artist Reception and Artist Awards Ceremony will be held on May 1 at the Paul H Thompson Library. The reception will take place from 4 p.m. to 6 p.m. and the Artist Awards Ceremony begins at 5 p.m. Live music is featured by the FTTC Student and Faculty Ensemble and catered by the FTTC Culinary Department. The public is welcome, and admission is free to the Artist Reception and Artist Awards Ceremony.
The FTCC ARTWORKS 2025 exhibit highlights the following artists FTCC staff, faculty, and students: Angela Newsome, Rory Carr, Christine Wilson, Katey Morrill, Abigail Gilbert, Karena Kimble, Lamar L. Daniels, October Lurty, Lydia Laffert, Jazmine Legall, Richard A. Long, Wanda Mason, Stephanie Meadows, Greg Hawks, Sandy Jung, Justic MacGarner, Jesse Kiker, Jamie A. Little, Dexter Morrill, Sage Junior, Josef Schell, Dr. Munoz, Trinity Serrano, Sterling L. Ash, Tim Byrant, Sophia Demetri, Sage Gordon, Sarah Kistner, Kevin Elmore, Maryam Abdul Reizak, Christina Tarbush, Ivey Norton, Emily Gardner, Aleida Veliz, Nathaniel Abraham, Jessica Sills, Abir Mohsen, and Jennifer Humble.
Noteworthy art pieces among the talented array of creative and talented works are Katey Morrill, Sticks and Reeds; Rory Carr, Nontraditional Summer Storm; Angela Newsome, Eye, Starry Cretaceous Night; Abigail Gilbert, Foolishly Sentimental; Lamar L. Daniels, Stairway to Salvation; Jennifer Humble, Hosh; and Justice MacGarner, Everyday Tools. Katharine Morrill shares her passion about the FTCC ARTWORKS 2025. “The Art Gallery at the library is excited to highlight FTTC ARTWORKS2025, a juried group exhibition that celebrates vibrant creativity and artistic talent found across Fayetteville Technical Community College. The
11 th annual showcase highlights the hard work, critical thinking, and innovation of our students, faculty, and staff, reflecting diverse voices and visions within our college community. This year, we are especially excited to present a wide variety of artistic making-from painting, and digital design to welding to textiles-highlighting the tangible and conceptual range of skill and imagination within our campus,” she said. 
“As we honor the dedication of our artists, we also celebrate the strength and growth of our creative community-one that continues to inspire and evolve year after year. We warmly invite the broader community to join us in celebrating our artists and to be a part of the exciting momentum we are building together.”
Celebrate the creative community of Fayetteville Technical Community College. The Artist Reception and Artist Awards Ceremony takes place on May 1 at the Paul H. Thompson Library from 4 p.m. to 6 p.m., and it is open to the public. Meet and greet the artists, enjoy catered delights by the FTCC Culinary Department, and enjoy live music by the FTCC Student and faculty ensemble.

May is a bustling and exciting month filled with numerous festive holidays that bring communities together in celebration. Two particularly popular and entertaining occasions occur back-to-back: Star Wars Day on May 4, where fans worldwide celebrate the iconic franchise with the catchphrase "May the Fourth be with you," and Cinco de Mayo on May 5, a vibrant celebration of Mexican culture and heritage.
These consecutive holidays offer perfect opportunities for friends and families to gather and enjoy special moments together. Local communities are hosting various themed events, activities, and celebrations for both occasions, making it an ideal time to participate in the festivities and create lasting memories.
May the Fourth Be With You- Star Wars Events
Wednesday, April 30
• Star Wars Trivia at WOW Bar & Kitchen, 1944 Skibo Rd., at 7 p.m.
Join the World of Beer for an unforgettable evening of intergalactic entertainment at Star Wars Trivia! Challenge yourself with mind-bending questions about the iconic saga, from the original trilogy to the latest releases. Test your expertise on everything from lightsaber battles and memorable quotes to obscure character backgrounds and hidden Easter eggs.
Battle fellow fans in friendly competition as you showcase your mastery of the Force. Whether you align with the light or dark side, this is your chance to prove you're the ultimate Star Wars aficionado!
For more information, visit https://tinyurl.com/9by4kth3

Saturday, May 3
• May the 4th Be With You! at Fascinate-U Children's Museum, 116 Green St., at 10 a.m.-
Prepare for an epic morning full of adventure and fun. From 10 a.m. to noon, kids will step into the Star Wars universe through a series of hands-on activities and thrilling challenges. Young Padawans will get to train with lightsabers, learn the ways of the Force, and complete special Jedi training missions. They'll also participate in Star Wars-themed crafts, including building their own droid companions and creating galactic artwork.
Come dressed as your favorite Star Wars character or wear your Jedi robes! Whether you choose to channel Luke Skywalker, Princess Leia, Rey, or even join the Dark Side as Darth Vader, costumes are highly encouraged. This is the perfect event for young fans to immerse themselves in the Star Wars universe and meet other young Jedi-in-training.
Every participant will receive a special Star Wars-themed goodie bag and certificate of completion from the Jedi Academy. Space is limited to ensure each young Jedi gets personal attention during the activities. Register to reserve your spot and may the Force be with you! Tickets are $5 for adults and $7 for kids.
For more information, visit https://tinyurl.com/3ky3jv9e

• Star Wars Weekend: Movie on the Lawn at Rogue Toys, 151 Chatham St., Sanford at 5 p.m.-Join Rogue Toys for an unforgettable Star Wars weekend extravaganza as they celebrate the most iconic and beloved movie franchise in the galaxy with a special outdoor 'movie on the lawn' screening of Rogue One: A Star Wars Story.
The evening's festivities begin at 6 p.m. with an exciting lineup of local vendors showcasing Star Wars merchandise, collectibles, and memorabilia. Inside the store, fans can take advantage of exclusive discounts and special promotions on their favorite Star Wars items. Throughout the event, attendees will have the opportunity to purchase raffle tickets for a chance to win incredible Star Wars-themed prizes, including limited edition collectibles, action figures, and movie memorabilia.
As the sun sets, get ready for the main event at 8 p.m. when the thrilling story of the Rebel Alliance's daring mission to steal the Death Star plans comes to life under the stars. Bring your lawn chairs, blankets, and join fellow Star Wars enthusiasts for this memorable cinematic experience. For more information, visit https://tinyurl.com/48vt964r
• Star Wars Marathon Weekend at Sunrise Theater, 250 NW Broad St., Southern Pines
Immerse yourself in the epic Star Wars saga the way it was destined to be experienced — in all its cinematic glory on the massive theater screen, with thundering surround sound that brings every lightsaber duel and space battle to vivid life. Each movie is $10. Here is the schedule of movies:
Star Wars (original) starts Saturday, May 3 at 4 p.m.
Empire Strikes Back is Saturday at 7 p.m.
Return of the Jedi is Sunday at 3 p.m.
For more information, visit https://tinyurl.com/2sbczzvv

Sunday, May 4
• Star Wars Brunch at WOB Bar & Kitchen, 1944 Skibo Rd. at 11 a.m.-
May the brunch be with you! Join WOB for a galaxy-brunch far, far away—where the force is strong, and the mimosas are stronger! Dive into a Star Wars-themed dining experience that will transport you to a galaxy of delectable delights. Their menu features iconic dishes like Vader's Taters—crispy potato wedges seasoned with dark spices, and Leia's Buns—freshly baked cinnamon rolls with royal icing.
Quench your thirst with signature cocktails: the zesty Yoda 'Rita garnished with lime, or our refreshing Jedi Tropical Lemonade infused with exotic fruits from distant planets. For more information, visit https://tinyurl.com/4r5t7bws

Friday, May 9
• Fayetteville Woodpeckers Star Wars Game Night at Segra Stadium, 460 Hay St. at 7 p.m.- Experience an epic evening of intergalactic fun at Segra Stadium during the Fayetteville Woodpeckers' highly anticipated annual Star Wars Night game!
The Force will be strong as fans of all ages come together to celebrate this beloved franchise while enjoying America's favorite pastime. But the excitement doesn't end with the final inning - stick around after the game for a spectacular Fireworks Extravaganza. This massive pyrotechnic display will light up the night sky for approximately 8 minutes, featuring synchronized launches from two different locations, creating an unforgettable visual experience for all attendees.
Tickets start at $13. For more information, visit https://tinyurl.com/3whj4eje

Cinco de Mayo-May 5 Events
Saturday, May 3-Sunday, May 4
• Cinco de Mayo Event at Gaston Brewing Taproom, 421 Chicago Dr. at 6 p.m.-
Get ready for an unforgettable day of entertainment and excitement! This vibrant event features 25 diverse vendors showcasing unique products and delicious offerings from gourmet food trucks, refreshing adult beverages, and talented musicians performing live throughout the day.
Children will be delighted with multiple bounce houses for endless jumping fun, professional face painters creating magical designs, and engaging craft stations where they can unleash their creativity. The best part? This family-friendly celebration is completely free to attend, and well-behaved furry friends are welcome to join in the festivities too! For more information, visit https://tinyurl.com/26khrd7b

Monday, May 5
• Cinco de Mayo Party at Stewart's Tavern, 116 N. Main St., Raeford at 7 p.m.-
Get ready to spice up your Cinco de Mayo at Stewart's Tavern! Celebrate in style with mouthwatering $2 street tacos, irresistible half-priced nachos, and refreshing margarita specials. Plus, enjoy unbeatable deals on imported drinks to keep the fiesta going all night long.
Don’t miss out on the fun, food, and festivities – grab your friends and join us for a celebration to remember! For more information, visit https://tinyurl.com/4ureurd4

Laughter is good for the soul. The phrase has been repeated so often and for so long that its origins can’t be attributed to one person. From the Bible to scholars, this proverb has been reincarnated across the world, becoming a global sentiment. Anyone who has ever felt sad, depressed, lonely or angry has found solace in laughter.
Comedy has existed since before recorded history. Comedy has the power to heal, it’s a universal medicine. Comedy pokes fun at the extreme, insane and asinine. It’s a mirror of the collective's most absurd. A reflection of our “inside” thoughts. From the smallest clubs to the biggest arenas, comedy brings people together to laugh.
Dennis Villanueva, professionally known as Dennis Vee, is bringing the laughs to not only Fayetteville and Cumberland County but VFWs along the East Coast with his nonprofit, Laugh It Off!.
A Bronx native, Dennis spent his time growing up between Puerto Rico and the streets of the New York City borough in the ‘70s and ‘80s. No stranger to trouble, Dennis is not shy or ashamed of his youthful escapades and how that led to him bouncing between the island and mainland.
“My upbringing was a ping pong game between NYC and PR. A good rotation of being sent to PR because I was a bad kid… [I spent] summers in either NY or PR, depending on where I lived. Part of the bad kid relocation program,” he said.
He joined the Army after an arrest in 1989, an option that changed the trajectory of his life for the better.
“[The] first time around I was the sh****est soldier in existence. I ‘End Term of Service’ (ETS) in 1996,” he said.
As many know, the military is physically challenging as well as emotionally straining on soldiers and their families. In February of 2001, Dennis started doing standup, finding the perfect blend of Puerto Rican humor and military trauma. That same year, he was invited to perform at a Latino Comedian Showcase, when the unthinkable happened, and Dennis’s comedy career was put on the back burner to serve his country once again.
“I was present during 9/11 with personal ties to the towers. I reenlisted immediately and during that time I served in 1 Battalion, 75th Ranger Regiment, the Asymmetric Warfare Group and Special Forces,” he explained.
After retirement, he ended up in the classroom, now fighting the battle of providing quality education. He taught Spanish and Career and Technical Education at New Century Middle School and was named Beginning Teacher of the Year.
Three years ago, he got the “itch” to get back on the stage and make people laugh. He’s hosted several area comedy events (Poetic Punchlines, Latin Comedy Night) and headlined at some of the best comedy clubs in the Carolinas (Playhouse Nightclub) alongside some big names in the industry, including Bobby Henline. The self-proclaimed “greatest fan of Theodore Roosevelt and Ernest Hemingway”, licensed pilot, advanced scuba diver and “acceptor of all challenges” is looking to take his comedy national, along with his nonprofit, aimed at healing veterans through laughs. For booking inquiries and more information about Dennis Vee, email dennisveecomedy@gmail.com.
In October of 2024, he founded Laugh It Off!, Moving Veterans From Coping to Hoping. The nonprofit brings comedy shows to VFWs all over the Carolinas and the East Coast with a lineup of hilarious military veteran comedians, including Stefunny Denise, Gerrod Sidbury and Slim the Comedian.
What does Laugh It Off! do?
Laugh It Off! hosts comedy shows to honor veterans, active military members, dependents, and their guests with a stress-free night of comedy while showing our appreciation for the sacrifices they and their families have made for our great nation.
Laugh It Off! provides a platform for veterans to share their stories and experiences with fellow veterans, dependents, and supporters of the veteran community in a way that brings laughter through those shared experiences.
Laugh It Off! comedy shows also provide networking opportunities and resource information as well as stand-up comedy workshops for veterans, active military members, and dependents.
For more information about Laugh It Off! and show bookings, check out the website at www.laughitoff.org and make sure to follow them on social media https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61567131106041 for upcoming shows.

Mother's Day is Sunday, May 11. It is the perfect time to celebrate the incredible women who have shaped our lives. Treat your mom to a special outing, enjoy quality family time, or simply show your appreciation.
There are plenty of local events and activities to make this Mother's Day unforgettable. From brunches and spa days to creative workshops and outdoor adventures, our community has something for every mom to enjoy.

Saturday, May 3
• Glow & Grace Mother's Day Affair at The Glow Up Salon & Boutique, 5845 Ramsey St. at 2 p.m.-
Indulge the amazing women in your life with a day of pure luxury, self-care, and relaxation at Glow & Grace: A Mother’s Day Affair.
Whether you’re spoiling yourself or celebrating your favorite mom, this event is all about pampering, inspiring, and enhancing your glow! Enjoy a Curl Class, delicious charcuterie, refreshing drinks, rejuvenating facials, unique vendors, and so much more. Don’t wait—spaces are limited, so reserve your spot today! For more information, visit https://tinyurl.com/bdskjc7r

Wednesday, May 7
• Mother's Day Candles and Cocktails at Dirty Whiskey, 5431 Corporation Dr., Hope Mills at 6:30 p.m.-
Give Mom an unforgettable experience this Mother’s Day with a creative and fun-filled afternoon at Dirty Whiskey Cocktail Bar, Fayetteville’s #1 cocktail destination! Treat her to the joy of crafting her very own soy wax candle, a personalized keepsake she’ll cherish forever. As she pours, scents, and designs her candle, she can sip on a refreshing, expertly crafted cocktail from the bar’s renowned menu.
It’s the perfect blend of creativity, relaxation, and quality time together. Don’t miss this unique opportunity to celebrate Mom in style. Reserve your spot today and make this Mother’s Day truly Soylicious! Tickets are $55. For more information, visit http://localhost:3000/s/K35Nw9i

Saturday, May 10
• High Tea at Lazy Fox Lavender Farm, 272 Edgewood Rd., Cameron at 9:30 a.m.-
Take a journey back in time and immerse yourself in the charm and sophistication of a bygone era with High Tea at Lazy Fox Lavender Farm. Surrounded by the soothing aroma of lavender, the high tea experience invites you to unwind in an atmosphere of timeless elegance.
Picture delicate china, vintage linens, and the gentle symphony of nature creating the perfect backdrop for a truly memorable day. Tickets are $65 and include 3 savory items, 2 seasonal scones with farm fresh honey and lavender whipped butter, 2 dainty treats, a fine selection of teas curated in the Blue Ridge Mountains, and lavender lemonade. For more information, visit http://localhost:3000/s/XOKMT3F

• Once Upon a Mother's Day at 226 The Warehouse, 226 Donaldson St. at 6 p.m.-
Step into a storybook world this Mother’s Day with 266 The Warehouse’s Once Upon a Mother’s Day—an enchanting evening where fairy tales come to life! Step into a royal celebration featuring live princess performances, themed cocktails & mocktails, and a fairy tale-inspired dress code fit for kings, queens, and nobles alike. Fairy tale-inspired attire is encouraged. Tickets are $35. For more information, visit http://localhost:3000/s/nUvcnbt

• Mother's Day Floral Workshop at Paddy's Irish Pub, 2608 Raeford Rd. at 6 p.m.-
The Downtown Market of Fayetteville is thrilled to host a special Saturday class in celebration of Mother’s Day! This unique event is designed to make the day extra memorable for all the amazing moms out there.
Whether you’re looking for the perfect gift or simply a fun way to spend time together, this class is sure to delight. Participants will have the opportunity to choose from a stunning selection of exclusive Mother’s Day vases, each as unique and beautiful as the moms they’re meant to celebrate. Pair your vase with all your favorite blooms, handpicked to create a one-of-a-kind floral arrangement that’s bursting with color and charm.
Treat your mom, gather with friends, or plan a girls’ night out. This experience promises plenty of laughter, creativity, and joy. It’s the perfect way to show your appreciation and make Mother’s Day truly unforgettable. Tickets are $50. For more information, visit http://localhost:3000/s/9DM955n

Sunday, May 11
• Mother's Day Buffet at Cape Fear Vineyard & Winery, 195 Vineyard Dr., Elizabethtown at 11 a.m.-
Treat Mom to a delicious Mother's Day Brunch. Choose from two seating times for brunch either 11 a.m. or 1 p.m.
The buffet will feature an array of homestyle favorites like brisket, mac & cheese, banana pudding, and more, all prepared with care. Space is limited, so make your reservations now. Let Mom take the day off and treat her to a delightful meal where she can relax and have everything taken care of. Tickets are $13.24 for children ages 5-12 and $36.70 for ages 11 years and up. Kids 0-4 years old are free. For more information, visit http://localhost:3000/s/pCuMIa9

• Jazz Sunday: Mother's Day Jazz Tribute at Taste of West Africa, 116 Person St. at 3 p.m.-
Make this Mother’s Day unforgettable with an enchanting evening of live jazz, celebrating her boundless love and devotion. Jazzy Sunday: Mother’s Day Jazz Tribute is the perfect way to honor Mom, filling her heart with joy and her soul with the smooth, soulful sounds of nationally acclaimed saxophonist Freddy "Street Genie" Greene.
Let the soothing melodies and vibrant rhythms uplift her spirit and toast her with a delightful selection of tropical mixed drinks and imported wines. Whether she’s swaying to the music or simply soaking in the ambiance, this night is all about celebrating her in style. Tickets are $55.20 and include a complimentary drink or glass of wine. For more information, visit http://localhost:3000/s/N3TWlLy

• Mother's Day at the 1897 Poe House, 801 Arsenal Ave. at 1 p.m.-
Celebrate Mother’s Day in a truly special way at the 1897 Poe House, from 1 p.m. to 5 p.m. This delightful event offers a perfect blend of history, creativity, and shopping, making it a memorable day for moms and families alike.
Enjoy a Guided Women’s History Tour and dive into fascinating stories of women’s history with tours available at 1 p.m., 2 p.m., 3 p.m., and 4 p.m. Space is limited and offered on a first-come, first-served basis.
Participate in some crafting fun by making a special craft to commemorate the day, or check out the Mother’s Day Market. Stroll through the charming backyard market, featuring unique finds and treasures perfect for mom. This event is free. For more information, visit http://localhost:3000/s/uW847A1