Fayette-NAM or Fayette-FAM?

by JENNIFER WHITE GRADNIGO

A long-time advocate for the Fayetteville area, Bill Bowman yields this space to guest writer Jennifer White Gradnigo this week.

Allen’s selection for an Air Force ROTC detachment command allowed us to choose our next assignment. We chose Fayetteville primarily because of Allen’s expected impact at Fayetteville State University. However, we also chose Fayetteville due to its proximity to Washington, D.C., where I lived for 20 years, and also because it is central to so many wonderful cities we want to explore. Because of its beauty and access to both the ocean and the mountains, North Carolina is in the top four states for our possible retirement home so we thought we’d give it a test run.

Unfortunately, a lot of what I read and heard prior to moving to Fayetteville was negative. I had deployed from Fort Bragg in 2004 but hadn’t seen much of the area and only remembered the “strip,” which wasn’t a lot to remember. As recently as last month, when asked how I like the area I replied that we really like it. I was told, “Oh come on, you can be honest.”

No, I’m not a fan of strip malls, but downtown Hay Street reminds me of Old Town Alexandria. Cute shops, plenty of outside dining, and unlike the DC area, free and plentiful parking. Allen and I are definitely ready for more date days and nights. We’ve already been to numerous restaurants downtown with great food and service, and many are also kid-friendly which is a plus for us since we have a 3-year-old daughter.

We stumbled onto some of these restaurants because of location. We were looking for outdoor dining on a fall-like day, and decided to give them a try. Our waiter at a local Italian restaurant was incredibly friendly and told us what a great place Fayetteville is to raise a family. Many of the other restaurants we’ve enjoyed were noted by fellow Fayetteville Regional Chamber members.

One of the top items on my agenda when we moved here six months ago was to join the local chamber. From my very first networking breakfast to being accepted into Leadership Fayetteville, I’ve had fruitful experiences. As Woody Allen said, “Eighty percent of success is just showing up.”

After one event, I decided to make copies of my company’s fact sheets. Not finding a Kinkos online, I pulled out the business card of a person who I had just met at the Chamber breakfast. I walked in the door of the copy store where he works and was approached by one of the friendliest people I’ve encountered since we arrived, and what great customer service! He sat next to me through the entire process to ensure I received what I expected. I found out later that he owns the store.

Because of the warm and friendly people I’ve met through the Chamber and elsewhere, my community feels smaller, in a good way. Allen and I were becoming tired of the congestion and noise of the big city. We were excited about spending the next two or three years at a slower pace with our daughter. We wanted to feel a better sense of community and family and we’ve found it in Fayetteville.

From bumping into a Leadership Fayetteville teammate at a Hay Street restaurant to one-on-one business planning sessions at a local business development center, I already feel like I can reach out to my neighbors for assistance or lunch. With lovely people like the woman at the weigh station who told me my husband was just there when she recognized the photo of our daughter on my credit card, and the caring staff at an upscale day spa, we definitely live in Fayette-FAM, a place with some big city luxuries along with a warm embrace.

Photo: For years Fayetteville was known as Fayette-nam, but that is no longer the case. Once a trouble spot, Hay Street is now a family-friendly place to visit.