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The Gordian knots of families and politics

Nobody’s going to argue when I say that our country is in a complicated place these days. You can feel it in the news, around the dinner table, even in the grocery store line. And I don’t think anyone would argue with this either: families are complicated, too. Now, mix those two things together—a complicated country and a complicated family—and it gets even trickier. Especially when the folks around the table see the country through different lenses. That’s when things get really complicated.
Are our modern day families so torn up by political differences that gathering around the kitchen island without an argument around the daily news is more and more uncommon? Is our country now so divided and passionate that we are headed towards another civil war?
I hope not on both counts.
19In Measure of Devotion, a new novel by Raleigh native Nell Joslin, these complicated, age-old family dynamics play out for the Shelburne family during the Civil War in South Carolina. At first glance, this might seem to be just another Southern novel about the war.
But Joslin is not just telling a Southern story. She weaves a universal narrative that applies to us today. The Shelburnes’ saga is rooted in the past, but echoes powerfully right now.
Susannah and Jacob Shelburne live in secessionist South Carolina but are quiet abolitionists. Their servants are no longer enslaved, and the Shelburnes consider them their friends and equals. They do not press their anti-slavery beliefs on others, but subtly oppose the widespread Southern culture. Speaking out publicly would put them in danger in their community, so they push back in subtle ways.
As I was pulled deeper into the story, a question gnawed at me. Why were the Shelburnes not more outspoken? Jacob acknowledges early in the novel, “I confess that in this way I am living a lie. But I know no help for it. Though I cannot say I love my state, I do love my home and my farm…. It is a Gordian knot.” The Shelburnes struggle to parent their teenage son Francis, a Confederate sympathizer. Francis only grows more defiant and joins the Confederate army. The metaphorical Gordian knot is tightened by Susannah’s struggle to save her son after he is wounded fighting for a cause she abhors.
How does a beloved son come to embrace a culture his parents spent their life resisting? Part of the answer lies in time and place. He grows up in a world where many voices around him lift up those very values, even glorifying slavery and war. And like adolescents in every era, he’s itching to push back against his parents.
“You think I’m a child. Christ, I cannot wait to be rid of this house and everyone in it,” he tells Susannah as he prepares to war.
Sound familiar? Maybe your child didn’t use those exact words. Maybe you didn’t. But chances are, at some point, you’ve heard something close—or said something just as sharp in your own teenage years. It’s part of the long, complicated story of growing up and breaking away.
That old metaphor of the Gordian knot still holds power today. We’re living in a time when the tangles of belief, identity, and loyalty feel impossible to sort out. And it’s not just in the headlines—it’s close to home. We’re neighbors to, and sometimes parents or grandparents of, people who see the world in ways we can’t quite understand. The bonds of family and community haven’t gone away—but they’ve gotten more complicated.
If you are struggling with the news of today’s front pages, or if you are disagreeing with a loved one, pick up Measure of Devotion. Joslin, via Susannah, reminds us that these complicated struggles—between family, identity, and belief—aren’t anything new. And, spoiler alert: there are no perfect endings to these struggles.

Education, outreach, renovation at Fayetteville State University Planetarium, Observatory

Joseph Kabbes calls himself an “unconventional academic.” He serves as an instructor and manager at the Fayetteville State University Planetarium and Observatory, a career he pursued following a surprising pivot.
Working as a software developer during the beginning of his career, Kabbes felt something was missing. He sensed a latent desire to delve into the world of astronomy - a field that had fascinated him since his youth. So, he went back to school where graduate work in astronomy eventually landed him in a teaching role and the realization that this was what he loved.
Now he spends his days teaching, grading, managing tours and renovations, and sharing his passion for astronomy with students and adults of all ages.
17With 5,000 students visiting the location annually for tours and summer camps, there's always something going on and always something that needs to be updated. Current renovations center on the observatory, which will now bring the whole facility up to date, since planetarium renovations were completed several years ago.
The planetarium and observatory first opened in 1980. At that time, Kabbes says they didn’t have computers and everything in the facility was completely manual. The first major renovations to the facility began with the planetarium in 2018. The COVID-19 pandemic delayed the project’s completion, and the planetarium didn’t reopen until 2022. But the work was a success and according to Kabbes, “that renovation allowed us to go from an old, old mechanical star ball to a fully digital projection system.”
Now, their focus has turned to updating the observatory, a task that Kabbes says is necessary because of mechanical and structural failures at the facility. These updates entail replacing the observatory dome and tearing out the entire original telescope and mount.
Funding for these changes came from a variety of sources, and Kabbes says that his business experience with startups from his software engineering days equipped him with a resourceful angle on renovations.
“That’s just kind of the mentality you get into,” he shared, “Other than occasional grants for big ticket things, we really do try to be self-sufficient in our revenues.”
The dome replacement was covered by Title 3 grant funds and previous grant funding had already equipped them with a new telescope. Everything else, he said, is funded by revenue that the planetarium generates. The updated observatory will be computer-controlled, unlike the original manual controls, and will have the capacity for remote operation.
Kabbes said many in the community don’t even realize the planetarium and observatory exist, but when they step inside, reactions range from “wow!” to “that felt like a trip!” especially when viewing the planetarium demonstration. He said this visual display is incredibly high resolution, partly because of a mistake.
When renovating the planetarium, they’d ordered digital projectors that were typical for the 30-foot dome the space featured. But, when the order was fulfilled and delivered, their chosen projectors weren’t available, and they ended up receiving 10, 4k digital projectors; the kind that would typically be used on 60 or 70-foot domes. The result? The high-resolution projectors in the comparatively small dome project exceptionally crisp imagery.
“As best as I can tell, we’ve got more pixels per square inch on our dome than any other planetarium in the world right now,” Kabbes shared, “It just yields a really wonderful sky viewing experience.”
The projection resolution, along with their 6,500-watt sound system, makes the facility especially conducive to engaging tours; tours which Kabbes laughingly explains are, "basically me explaining science with bad jokes.”
Planetarium tour topics for elementary and middle-school students typically include an overview of the solar system with time for questions and discussions. For adults, topics cover a wide range, including black holes, the NASA Artemis Program, exoplanets, dark energies, dark matter, and other “obscure” topics if Kabbes senses there’s interest.
Both the planetarium and the observatory serve as places where young students with an interest in STEM subjects can broaden their understanding of the fields.
“They realize they like STEM, but they don’t realize all the different things that are out there in terms of different engineering fields and science fields,” said Kabbes.
For FSU students, once the observatory reopens, they can attend summer internships and gain first-hand experience in research projects.
“It's a really important tool in helping STEM students stay in college,” Kabbes explained, sharing that freshman and sophomores sometimes lack experience-building opportunities. “There are some things we can do in observational astronomy with the observatory that will allow them to participate in some research programs, and get some experience with that. I'm looking forward to getting that spun up as well.”
Kabbes says he also hopes to launch an astronomy club that will provide members with regular opportunities to experience what the observatory has to offer.
“They'll actually be able to come to the observatory and see it in action, and see the images that come from that. So they’ll be able to get a feel for how that whole process works.”
He’s looking forward to introducing visitors to the improved viewing experience and educational opportunities.
“I try to make space and complex concepts understandable to just about everybody. So, if you want to come learn about space, this is the place to come in the area.”

Get children excited for the new school year

A new school year presents a wealth of opportunities for students. At the dawn of a new school year, students have a chance to further their academic careers, student-athletes may be given a shot at making a team or moving up to varsity, and extracurriculars provide a chance for personal growth outside the classroom.
16Despite all that a new school year represents, students may need a little extra motivation to get excited about going back to campus once summer winds down.
A relaxing and largely obligation-free summer vacation can be tough to give up, as can mornings without alarm clocks. Parents recognize that kids might not be enthusiastic about the return of early mornings and sessions in the classroom. In such instances, parents can try the following strategies to get kids excited about a new school year.
• Make the first day special. The first days can be challenging, regardless of a person's age. Professionals with years of experience in their field still feel first-day jitters when they begin a new job, so youngsters can be excused if what seems like a lack of excitement is really just nervousness about a new school year.
Parents can calm those nerves by doing something to make the first day special. Skip the standard cereal and prepare a home-cooked breakfast or let kids buy lunch at the school cafeteria instead of packing a PB&J in their lunchbox. A little something special on the first day can go a long way toward getting kids excited about going back to school.
• Emphasize new subjects. As children advance through school, they are typically exposed to more engaging subjects or challenged in ways that help them build on previous years' work. Emphasizing new subjects or opportunities can increase kids' excitement to get back in the school year swing of things.
If a youngster likes playing an instrument, emphasize how the new school year is an opportunity to get better, play alongside other students and take a talent to new heights. If students are old enough to take subjects they've long been interested in, such as a foreign language, make a point to emphasize how that opportunity has finally arrived.
• Create a school calendar. Schools typically make their yearly schedules available prior to the first day of school. Parents can peruse those schedules alongside their children and make a calendar noting special days.
Mark down field trips, special events involving parents and students, school performances where kids get to act or sing on stage, and other notable moments during the school year. Kids are bound to grow more excited about a new year when they see a year's worth of fun events marked down on a calendar.
• Host a late summer get-together with friends. A late-summer pool party or play date with various friends can remind youngsters that they're about to see their friends every day. That might be enough to make young students jump out of bed on the first day of school.
Students might be less than excited about the end of summer vacation and the dawn of a new school year. But there are many things parents can do to get kids excited about going back to school

NC seeking missing ID numbers for 103k voters

North Carolina State Board of Elections Executive Director Sam Hayes is setting off on a mission to correct 103,000 North Carolinians’ voting records from which some information is missing.
He maintains that the process, dubbed the Registration Repair Project, will not remove any eligible voters from the state’s voter rolls.
According to the state elections board, 103,270 North Carolina registered voters have records that lack either their driver’s license number, the last four digits of their Social Security number or an indication that they have neither.
9Last year, this missing information became the stuff of headlines, lawsuits and the high-profile election protest of Republican Court of Appeals Judge Jefferson Griffin, who lost his bid for state Supreme Court to the incumbent justice, Democrat Allison Riggs, by 734 votes.
In April, the North Carolina Supreme Court declined to remove ballots from the count based on missing identification numbers; they said the state elections board, not voters, was responsible for a faulty voter registration form that didn’t make it abundantly clear that this information was required.
While Griffin lost, the issue he raised remains salient for a newly Republican elections board and the U.S. Department of Justice, which promptly sued the state board over alleged violations of the federal Help America Vote Act’s voter registration provisions.
Thursday, Hayes told reporters that a process he unveiled in late June to gather these missing identification numbers had begun in earnest.
“We must put this issue behind us so we can focus our attention squarely on preparations for accurate and secure municipal elections this fall,” he said.
The plan to collect missing information
There are two groups of voters under Hayes’ plan.
The first group includes registered voters who have never provided a driver’s license, the last four digits of their Social Security number or an affirmation that they lack both. The state elections board has asked county election boards to check their records for these numbers, in case they were provided but not correctly entered into the voting system.
In early August, the state elections board will send letters to the remaining voters in this group requesting the missing information. If affected voters do not comply, they will vote provisionally in future elections. The elections board will create a flag on these voters’ records for poll workers.
The second group includes registered voters whose records do not show that they’ve provided an identification number, but have shown additional documentation at the polls proving their identity and eligibility under HAVA. These voters may vote a regular ballot.
However, the elections board will still send them a letter in a second mailing asking for the missing identification number to bolster the state’s voter records. Even so, if they do not oblige, they still will not be at risk of being disenfranchised, NCSBE General Counsel Paul Cox said.
County election boards have already made progress, and their work will continue as the mailings go out, Hayes said.
Voters can check to see whether they’re on the list of those with missing information by using the Registration Repair Search Tool. If voters don’t want to wait for the August mailing, they can submit an updated voter registration form using their driver’s license through the online DMV portal or visit their county elections board in person with their driver’s license or Social Security card.
“We anticipate the number of voters on the list will decrease quickly as word spreads about this important effort,” Hayes said.
The State Board of Elections unanimously approved the plan last month, despite some concerns from Democrat Jeff Carmon about putting up an extra obstacle for voters because of a problem with missing information that the voters didn’t cause.
“It’s hard to understand starvation if you’ve never felt the pangs of hunger,” Carmon said. “It’s the same situation with voting obstacles. Your perspective of an obstacle may not be the same as someone who’s consistently had their identity and their validity questioned.”
Nonetheless, Carmon and fellow Democrat board member Siobhan Millen ultimately voted in support of the plan.
Same ballot, different rules
Normally, when a voter casts a provisional ballot, the county elections board determines whether their ballot counts by the post-election canvass, held nine days after an election.
Voters may have to provide documentation or information to prove their eligibility to vote in order to be accepted.
The same process applies to the 103,000 affected voters, with a catch. Their vote may be accepted for federal contests, but not state contests, due to a difference in law.
According to the DOJ’s interpretation, the National Voter Registration Act requires all provisional votes of “duly registered voters” to count, Cox said.
But the state elections board has interpreted the state Supreme Court and North Carolina Court of Appeals’ decisions in the Griffin case as requiring a driver’s license, the last four digits of a Social Security number or an affirmation that a voter has neither before accepting their votes in state and local contests.
Under a recent election law change, county election boards have three days to validate and count or reject provisional ballots.
But sometimes, mismatches happen during validation due to database trouble with reading hyphenated names or connecting maiden and married names, for example, Cox said. The board has designed a “fail safe” in case this comes up.
When there’s a mismatch during the validation process, state law allows voters to provide additional documentation — like a driver’s license, bank statement or government document with a voter’s name and address — to prove their eligibility.
“A big chunk of these voters will have already shown HAVA ID, and that’s because in the past, when this information was not supplied, the county boards would still require these voters to show that alternative form of HAVA ID when they voted for the first time,” Cox said.
Poll workers will ask provisional voters to provide this additional documentation so that they can mark it down for later, if validation doesn’t work, he added.
Democrats threaten countersuit
Last week, the Democratic National Committee threatened the state board with litigation if they went ahead with their plan regarding those with missing information.
The letter claimed that the plan would remove eligible voters from the rolls illegally.
Hayes disagrees. In his view, he’s just following the law.
“It’s not the fault of the voters,” he said. “But at the same time, we’re required by the law to go back and collect this information, which should have been done at the time, and it certainly should have been done in the intervening time.”
He also clarified that North Carolina’s photo voter ID requirement won’t suffice for the impacted voters. They still have to vote provisionally so that their identification numbers can go through the validation process, he said.
As for whether his fully fleshed out plan will appease the DNC?
“We hope so,” Hayes said.

Health & Wellness: “A real go-getter”: Doctor becomes patient

Wes Jones, MD, remembers the day in 1983 when he decided where his medical career would unfold. As he was finishing a gastroenterology fellowship at Duke University and considering a number of places where he might begin his practice, a colleague told him he might want to check out Fayetteville. He added it to his list of cities to explore and set out for a drive with his wife, Lucy.
“We saw a sign for Fayetteville to the right, but I missed the exit,” he said. “And then a short while later, I saw another sign for Fayetteville, and this one pointed to the left.”
With all signs literally pointing to Fayetteville, they had a look around and soon felt right at home.
“And we just knew that's where God wants us to be,” he said. “So I've been here since ‘83.”
8After nearly four decades of practice at Cape Fear Valley, Dr. Jones retired in 2020. And late last year, despite a very active lifestyle, the doctor became a patient.
“It began with some numbness on the top of my foot,” he said. “I thought my shoe wasn’t on correctly, so I adjusted that and did fine the rest of the day.”
But the next day, the numbness was back. Over the next few days, it spread to his ankle and up to his mid-calf. This was not a good sign.
“The MRI showed lumbar stenosis with severe compression in the lower spinal canal,” Jones said. “Given my symptom progression, I was concerned about becoming paraplegic.”
Soon, Jones was evaluated by Charles Haworth, MD, at Cape Fear Valley Neurosurgery. The two were already well acquainted.
“He’s a good guy,” Dr. Haworth said. “He’s a go-getter and just a real optimist. He’s not a complainer. I was alarmed that he was in this condition and still trying to carry on.”
Three days later, Dr. Jones was in surgery. Dr. Haworth spent hours carefully clearing the overgrowth that had compressed the nerves, fusing the affected vertebrae to return sensation and function to Dr. Jones’ legs.
“That was the Monday before Thanksgiving,” Dr. Jones said. “And I was out of the hospital on Wednesday, which is pretty remarkable for a five-hour procedure. The next day, I was outside with a walker. I used that for a week, and a month later I was walking four or five miles.”
This was his usual routine before the surgery, and he was glad to be back at it. But as the weeks went by, Dr. Haworth worried he might be overdoing it.
“We always tell patients we want them to do some walking,” Dr. Haworth said. “And I knew he was doing a mile or two at the beginning, but then another friend told me he was doing three miles a day, and then he’s up to five or six or seven. And it’s like, how many people his age do anything near that?”
Dr. Jones felt fine but agreed to scale back to three or four miles a day, at least until they could confirm at a three-month follow-up that all was well.
“And the X-rays were completely unchanged from the ones right after surgery,” he said. “Dr. Haworth was very pleased with that, so I could keep walking as far as I liked.”
As his remarkable recovery continued, Dr. Jones was surprised by how many people assumed he’d gone out of town for his surgery.
“People have this mindset that you have to go to Duke or UNC for the best,” he said. “But as a doctor and now a patient, I can tell you I don’t think I would have gotten better care there than what I got at Cape Fear Valley. There’s just not a lot of reason to go so far away.”
Dr. Haworth agreed and said Dr. Jones has been a large part of Cape Fear Valley’s evolution into a robust, thriving health system.
“He's given so much back to the hospital and now to the medical school,” Dr. Haworth said. “He's just a very special, unique person in the community.”
Dr. Jones said he wants people to know that symptoms like his are not to be ignored. He had powered through many years of back trouble, keeping the discomfort at bay with plenty of walking, swimming and yoga.
“It’s one thing to have back discomfort that comes and goes,” he said. “But once you have a neurological symptom like numbness, and it’s spreading, that is a big red flag, and you need to get it checked out.”

(Dr. Wes Jones had a remarkable surgery and recovery at Cape Fear Valley Health. Learn more at capefearvalley.com Photo courtesy of Cape Fear Valley Health)

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