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Life lessons with Pitt: Waffle House Zen

5The Waffle House is where America eats and learns existential truths. Within its hallowed walls, I heard a profound question escape from the lips of a Philosopher Waitress as she prepared to take the orders of the hungry Americans sitting in the next booth.
As soon as her question floated into the delicately bacon-scented air of the Waffle House, I knew that it would be the subject of a column. The question stands as a beacon of deep import. What, you might ask, did she say? Odd, you should ask in the first paragraph of this stain on World Literature.
She asked the entire booth: “Is everybody happy with their life decisions this morning?”
Let that question sink in, friends and neighbors. Are you happy with your life decisions this morning?
Tell the truth, now.
Clearly, every decision you have made in your life has led to you reading this chloroform in print right now. How can this be? Where did you go wrong in falling to this lowly state of reading this column in a local weekly? It turns out decisions matter. Why weren’t we informed?
When things get bumpy in life, my wife Lani and I head to the local Waffle House for comfort food. The syrup and cholesterol work wonders. The elegant Zen from the Waitress was an unexpected bonus.
Life decisions matter, even to Oysters. Consider Alice in Wonderland’s story of the Walrus and the Carpenter.
When was the last time you overheard a conversation between a Walrus and a Carpenter? It has probably been at least several months. Your eavesdropping drought is broken today courtesy of Up & Coming Weekly.
Return with us now to those thrilling days of yesteryear when Walruses and Carpenters roamed freely upon the Outer Banks of North Carolina. Back before Highway 12 was just a gleam in real estate developers’ eyes.
Let us set the scene. The Walrus and the Carpenter were heading north on the beach towards Virginia when they fell into a morose conversation bemoaning the fact there was so much sand on the beach. The Walrus, in a philosophical mode, said: “If seven maids with seven mops/ Swept it for half a year/ Do you suppose they could get it clear? “
“I doubt it,” said the Carpenter/ And shed a bitter tear.
To take their minds off this distressing subject, the Walrus and the Carpenter invited some Oysters to walk with them towards Ocracoke. The oldest Oyster declined their invitation to take a romantic stroll along the beach. Four young Oysters, filled with the impetuous energies of youth, eagerly took up the Walrus’ offer for a walkabout.
Many other young Oysters, falling in thrall to the four Influencer Oysters, fearing missing out, rushed to join the Walrus and Carpenter. The madness of crowds is sometimes double plus ungood.
The happy group walked on about a mile until it was time for a rest. The host of young Oysters stood in an expectant, smiling row. The Walrus cleared his throat and began an oration: “The time has come to talk of many things/ Of shoes and ships and sealing wax/ of cabbages and kings/ and why the sea is boiling hot/ and whether pigs have wings.”
The Oysters asked to rest a bit longer because most of them were fat and tired. (Editor’s note: Oysters do not have feet, rendering effective ambulation on sand difficult) The Walrus noted they needed a loaf of bread, pepper, and vinegar before the seaside picnic could begin. The Oysters protested that after such a nice walk, it would be anti-climactic to be eaten.
The Walrus displayed a sense of near regret. But as we all know, hunger overcomes regret in every instance. He said: “It seems a shame to play them such a trick/ After we’ve brought them out so far/ and made them trot so quick.”
The Carpenter said nothing but: “The butter’s spread too thick.”
The Walrus replied, “I weep for you/ I deeply sympathize.” With sobs and tears he sorted out those of the largest size/ holding his pocket-handkerchief before his streaming eyes.
“O, Oysters,” said the Carpenter, “You’ve had a pleasant run! Shall we be trotting home again?” But answer came there was none/ And this was scarcely odd, because they’d eaten every one.
Untrigger Warning: No actual Oysters were harmed in the writing of this column. Remember, your life decisions can affect your life. Pass the cocktail sauce and melted butter, it’s Oyster Roast season.

(Illustration by Pitt Dickey)

Five numbers define our biggest challenges

4Most North Carolinians think our country is on the wrong track. That’s what 55% of respondents said in the latest High Point University survey, with 54% of likely voters offering the same critique in the latest Carolina Journal Poll.
I count myself in that majority. America has faced worse times, to be sure, including in my lifetime. What I find most disconcerting at the moment, though, is how little public dialogue is devoted to what I perceive to be the biggest problems facing our state and nation. Transfixed by devices and bamboozled by clickbait, we seem incapable of focusing on high-priority issues.
Consider these five challenges, defined by five troubling statistics:
• The first is $1.8 trillion. That’s how much the federal government borrowed over the fiscal year that ended September 30. Federal debt held by the public — that is, not counting money “borrowed” from federal trust funds — now stands at $30.3 trillion, or 98% of America’s gross domestic product.
If present trends continue, the debt will soon surpass annual economic output and reach 111% of GDP by 2030. Our federal government now spends more on debt service each year than it does on national defense. I wish I could blame Washington’s recklessness entirely on the politicians who serve there. But voters keep reelecting them! Unless we boot out irresponsible panderers and reward those willing to make tough decisions, American greatness will inevitably fade.
• The second number is 38%. That’s the share of annual health care spending financed by federal dollars — which, as I’ve just indicated, includes a vast amount of borrowed dollars. Adding in state dollars spent on Medicaid and other health plans pushes the government share of medical expenditures up close to half. Unless Congress and state legislatures accept the need to reform these programs, rather than expand them or shift their costs around, balanced budgets will remain forever out of reach.
• The third number is also 38%. According to independent tests, that’s the share of North Carolina eighth-graders who lacked basic math skills in 2024. The same assessment found 35% of eighth-graders lacked basic reading skills.
In 2019, before the COVID lockdowns, those figures were 29% and 28%, respectively. They were too high back then. Too many of our students were unprepared to work, go to college, or shoulder other responsibilities of adulthood. Still, in value-added terms, our schools in 2019 were more effective than those of all but a handful of states across the country. Now we’re far down the list.
• The fourth number is 1.6. That’s the average number of children born per American woman in 2024. It’s the lowest fertility rate yet recorded. The causes of this trend may be hotly debated, as are the effectiveness of potential policy responses, but the effects of slowing population growth are hard to dispute. Economic vitality and innovation will decline, as will the ratio of workers to retirees. A higher savings rate won’t be enough to compensate. Nor will advances in robotics. Human flourishing requires plenty of humans!
• The final number is 35%. That’s the share of North Carolina children living in single-parent households in 2023.
Unlike the figures discussed earlier, this one hasn’t gotten worse over time. The comparable figure a decade ago was 37%. Nevertheless, to have more than a third of our kids living with only one parent or guardian is a tragedy. Parenthood is a hard-enough job when performed in pairs, with plenty of support from extending family. Growing up in a single-parent household is a well-established risk factor for living in poverty, struggling in school, chronic unemployment, substance abuse, and other adverse outcomes.
These five problems aren’t the only ones worth worrying about, I grant you. But it’s hard for me to imagine a thriving nation in the absence of real progress on each of these fronts. Future generations of North Carolinians and Americans will thank us if we tackle these problems — and condemn us if we fail to do so.

Editor’s Note: John Hood is a John Locke Foundation board member. His books Mountain Folk, Forest Folk, and Water Folk combine epic fantasy with American history (FolkloreCycle.com).

“Visionary Leadership” sometimes means saying no

The deViere Dispatch is a regular communication from Kirk deViere, offering thoughtful perspectives and timely updates on Cumberland County initiatives, decisions, and opportunities for community engagement.
His insights help demystify complex issues and provide candid commentary on government, leadership, and the decisions that shape our daily lives. Mr. deViere currently serves as Chairman of the Cumberland County Board of Commissioners, representing District 2. He previously held office as a North Carolina State Senator for two terms and as a Fayetteville City Councilman for one term.
I strongly encourage our Up & Coming Weekly readers to Google and read CityView’s October 12 article by Tim White, the former editorial page editor of The Fayetteville Observer, titled: Here’s What Would Make Fayetteville a Grand Arts Mecca. In it, White shares his opinion on what “would transform Fayetteville into an unavoidable stop for arts and entertainment in North Carolina.”
Well, in my opinion, Mr. White has forfeited the right to offer such an opinion. Kirk deViere is far too much of a gentleman—and politician—to say this outright, but I’m not. Tim White is an uninformed hypocrite.
His article merely regurgitates the negative talking points of a few disgruntled and misinformed downtown Fayetteville property owners. White has zero credibility when it comes to commenting on city or county matters in which he has no direct involvement or understanding.
It is both foolish and disingenuous for him to claim a deep love for Fayetteville—its arts, culture, dining, and “cheery” downtown experiences. Really? If he “loved” and enjoyed Fayetteville so much, why did he choose to live in Moncure, a town in Chatham County, 40 miles away? Mr. deViere’s Dispatch is spot-on. We need more truth-tellers willing to bring transparency to local government and call out this kind of hypocrisy.
It’s precisely this type of illegitimate commentary that likely led The Assembly to apply bold yellow editorial disclaimers to its content—and why CityView continues to solicit support and donations to the point of ad nauseam. Jus' sayin'!
Thank you for reading Up & Coming Weekly newspaper.

—Bill Bowman, Publisher

4The deViere Dispatch, Oct. 14
The recent CityView editorial column paints an appealing picture of downtown Fayetteville as an arts mecca, with the Crown Event Center (originally pitched as a “DPAC-like” Performing Arts Center) as the missing puzzle piece that would complete the vision. It’s easy to understand the nostalgia for lost cultural venues and the desire to see downtown thrive with pre-show dinners and post-show drinks within walking distance.
But there’s something critical that the CityView article glosses over: this wasn’t actually about lacking “visionary leadership” it was about inherited flawed plans masquerading as vision.
The Project That Changed Beyond Recognition
The downtown facility wasn’t killed by commissioners lacking imagination. It was a project that ballooned from $80 million to $178 million (including the parking deck), with costs more than doubling from original estimates. More troubling, this wasn’t even the performing arts center many residents envisioned and had been pitched. It was an event center with a flat floor designed primarily for conventions, yet consistently marketed as something it wasn’t.
When only 28 people from user group workshops essentially designed a multi-million dollar facility, and their own cautionary notes about size and scope were ignored, that’s not visionary planning—that’s a runaway project detached from community input.
What the Community Actually Wanted
Here’s the part that should give downtown advocates pause: the community survey used to justify the downtown location actually showed majority support for renovating the existing Crown Complex before evaluation criteria were weighted to favor downtown. The data existed (https://bit.ly/ECFS2021 - slide 13), but was interpreted to support a predetermined outcome.
The Gateway Argument: Investment vs. Abandonment
The CityView article makes a compelling emotional point about the Crown Complex area: it’s become a “dilapidated landscape” that deters job-seekers arriving at the airport, a once-bustling corridor along US 301 that declined after I-95 diverted traffic. The argument goes: why turn away from this “entertainment asset” and key gateway when it needs investment?
But this framing by the skilled writer presents a false choice. The question isn’t whether to invest in the Crown Complex area or abandon it. It is whether to invest wisely in what exists versus pouring $178 million into a fundamentally flawed project.
In fact, the commissioners’ decision actually directs investment toward the Crown Complex. The board has instructed the county manager to develop a framework to modernize the existing Crown Arena and Theater that will increase use and programming of the facilities. This represents exactly the kind of investment the gateway argument calls for by improving the corridor that first-time visitors see, rather than abandoning those existing facilities.
Consider the math: if renovating and modernizing the Crown Complex was the community’s stated preference in the survey, and if that approach provides more usage days than the downtown facility while addressing the “dilapidated” gateway problem, isn’t that actually more responsive to both community input and the gateway concern?
The article dismisses the Crown Complex location as “the city’s ragged edge” near “shabby old motels,” but you don’t revitalize a struggling corridor by abandoning the anchor institutions that could drive its renewal. You revitalize it by investing in those anchors intelligently, which is precisely what a fiscally responsible Crown Complex renovation and some strategic master planning could accomplish.
The Parking Problem Nobody Solved
The romantic vision of walking from dinner to show to drinks collapses when you realize there was no on-site ADA parking, and the proposed $33 million parking garage (never acknowledged as part of the project by some) was located behind the courthouse without a connection to the facility.
5The Real Question About Vision
Yes, Fayetteville needs quality arts venues. Yes, downtown Fayetteville revitalization matters. And yes, the Crown Complex corridor deserves investment as a key gateway. But is it visionary leadership to commit the full debt capacity of Food & Beverage tax revenue to a facility projected to be used only 144 days per year? That’s actually fewer days of use than existing facilities would provide.
Is it visionary to rush a groundbreaking ceremony and rip up a 200-space parking lot with a flawed replacement plan, approving $26 million in spending within two weeks of a new board taking office, leaving no time for value engineering or addressing critical flaws?
The article is right that Fayetteville deserves better than a dilapidated gateway, but the solution isn’t to abandon that gateway for downtown at any cost. The solution is to invest wisely in improving what exists while exploring future development opportunities for the downtown site that don’t require fiscal recklessness.
A Different Kind of Vision
Real visionary leadership sometimes means having the courage to stop a project that’s gone wrong, even when it disappoints people. It means being willing to say: “We can do better than spending $178 million on a misrepresented facility that would sit empty most of the year, with parking we haven’t properly planned, funded entirely by one vulnerable revenue source the state can eliminate at any time.”
It also means recognizing that you can address the gateway problem and practice fiscal responsibility by investing in Crown Complex modernization. This is an approach that the community survey actually supported and that provides more programming flexibility.
The question isn’t whether our community deserves to be an arts mecca with an impressive gateway. The question is whether pursuing that vision requires abandoning fiscal responsibility, ignoring what the community survey actually said they wanted, and turning away from strategic investment in existing entertainment infrastructure.
Perhaps the real missing piece isn’t visionary leadership, it is the willingness to build that vision on a foundation of honest planning, accurate information, and sustainable financial principles that invest in all of the community’s corridors, not just downtown Fayetteville.

(Top Photo: The Crown Event Center location in downtown Fayetteville is currently unoccupied. Bottom Photo: This artist's rendering shows what the original plan for the Crown Event Center entailed. The project cost ballooned from initial estimates.)

Troy's Perspective: Local academics area of concern

6Cumberland County is home to 86 public schools, with 27 of them classified as low-performing by the State Board of Education. While an impressive 78% of our schools have met or exceeded the growth standards for academic performance, surpassing the statewide average of approximately 71%, the recent increase in low-performing schools from 15 to 27 is a cause for immediate concern. This pressing issue demands immediate and urgent action to ensure that every student has access to a quality education.
The school situation in Cumberland County is not a severe crisis, but it is certainly more than just a trivial concern. It demands our full attention and, most importantly, concerted efforts from all stakeholders to address it effectively. Every stakeholder, from school board members to educators and community members, plays a crucial role in this collective effort.
Underperforming schools play a significant role in perpetuating a cycle of poverty in communities, thereby limiting individual economic opportunities. This, in turn, leads to higher poverty rates, decreased workforce participation, and increased reliance on public services. These are not favorable outcomes for a county that is already grappling with its Tier One community status, one of the poorest counties in the state.
Addressing the issue of underperforming schools is crucial in breaking this cycle.
The 'right' superintendent is vitally important because they are the public face and ultimate communicator. They are the chief executive who leads the school district, sets its strategic direction, manages its operations, and directly influences student success and the community's educational quality.
Their leadership is crucial; our new superintendent, Dr. Eric C. Bracy, has the expertise to provide the professional guidance necessary to improve our low-performing schools. Bracy's leadership experience includes positions in Northampton, Sampson, and most recently, Johnston County Schools. Under his guidance, Johnston County Schools experienced significant improvement, rising from 83rd to 35th in statewide academic proficiency.
Additionally, the number of low-performing schools in the district decreased from 14 to just one. This success story is a beacon of hope for our own situation.
The community must actively engage with schools to address this challenge. Your involvement is not just significant, it's crucial. Together, we can make a difference. Change will not happen overnight. It is time to empower parents who believe that their children could benefit from a private school environment by providing them with the option of vouchers. The availability of vouchers, especially for students in underperforming schools, should be a fair and viable choice.

Dealing with Post Tarheel Sisyphus Disorder

5Trigger warning, this column is not suitable for UNC football fans, Snowflakes irritated by mangled Greek Mythology, or small house plants. Parental discretion is advised. You would be better off binge-watching pre-season Hallmark Channel Christmas movies rather than wasting your time reading this drivel. I personally witnessed the recent UNC- Clemson football debacle. I am scarred for life as a result of the traumatic events at Kenan Stadium. Unlike what Andy Griffith once said, what it was, was not football. It was Slaughter House 38-10 in Chapel Hill. Andy at least got a big Orange soda at his Tar Heel game. I did not even have the comfort of adult beverages to ease the gridiron pain as I had to drive back home after the game.
To be a Tar Heel football fan is to suffer, to know great pre-season hopes only to see them dashed to bits on the shores of a non-existent defense and an at best mediocre offense. It is to be Charlie Brown hoping that this time Lucy will not snatch the football away at the last minute. It is to understand the depths of Charlie’s anguish as he screams, “AAUGH!” The Heels gave up 28 points to Clemson in the first quarter. There is no Mercy Rule in college football to stop scoring carnage. UNC, like Blanche Dubois in A Streetcar Named Desire, must depend upon the kindness of strangers. In this case, the kind strangers wore Clemson orange. If Clemson had not played its second and third strings after the first quarter, the score might have been a Zillion to 3.
Unfortunately, like Humpty Dumpty’s issues, UNC’s Bill Belichick, our $50 million 73-year-old coach, and Jordan, his 24-year-old girlfriend, could not put the Tar Heels back together again. To rationalize why Tar Heel fans still pull for the football team, kindly turn to the story of Sisyphus, the patron saint of Carolina Football. At some point in the past, UNC football must have offended the Greek Gods. We are the Sisyphus of college football. Were you asleep when Sisyphus was discussed in your Greek Mythology class? Allow me to refresh your recollection. Post Tarheel Sisyphus Disorder (PTSD) explains what happens in Kenan Stadium each Autumn.
Sisyphus considered himself smarter than Zeus. He ticked off Zeus by ratting him out about kidnapping the River God’s daughter. It is not wise to aggravate the King of the Gods. Zeus ordered Thanatos the God of Death to chain up Sisyphus. Sisyphus pulled the old switcheroo and chained up Thanatos instead. Because Thanatos was chained up, no humans could die on Earth. This situation frustrated Ares, the God of War, because battles couldn’t result in killing his enemies. Death was stingless while Thanatos was imprisoned. Ares finally captured Sisyphus and unchained Thanatos so people could start dying again.
Sisyphus ended up in the custody of Hades, the God of the Underworld. Being a smooth talker, Sisyphus conned Hades into letting him temporarily go back to the world of the living to remonstrate with his wife. Once above ground, Sisyphus refused to go back to the Underworld until he died of old age. On returning to the Underworld, Hades made Sisyphus push a giant enchanted rock up a hill. When Sisyphus got the rock almost to the top of the hill, the rock would roll back down the hill, forcing Sisyphus to start pushing the rock back up the hill again. This goes on for eternity. Sisyphus is the universal symbol of “useless efforts and unending frustration.”
Speaking of useless efforts and unending frustration, Gentle Reader, now do you see why UNC football fans suffer PTSD every Autumn? Hope springs eternal each pre-season. We dream the impossible dream. We will fight the unbeatable foe. We will bear with unbearable sorrow. We will run where the brave dare not go. This season will be different. The Heels will go all the way. We will push the Enchanted Rock up the hill. Victory will be in sight. Then the month of September arrives. The football-shaped rock rolls back down Chapel Hill, crushing the hopes of the Village Faithful in Kenan Stadium. By October, there is no pressure on Tar Heel football fans. We leave during the 3rd quarter. The season was wrecked during September. We long for the return of basketball season and UNC Women’s Field Hockey.
Oh, somewhere in this favored land the sun is shining bright/ The band is playing somewhere/ And somewhere hearts are light/ And somewhere men are laughing/ And somewhere children shout/ But there is no joy in Chapel Hill/ Mighty Belichick has struck out.

(Illustration by Pitt Dickey)

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